Love_is_the_red_pill

The speaker reflects on how society often focuses on negativity and expects things to go wrong. They believe that love is a powerful force that can inspire people to do incredible things, such as being a better friend or working hard to improve their children's lives. The speaker sees love as a transformative experience that awakens people and gives them a reason to live. They question why there is so much emphasis on canceling and negativity, and suggest that individuals should create their own rules instead. Um, this wasn't necessarily, this wasn't necessarily the, um, love is the red pill. Love is the red pill. We always focus on microaggressions or whatever happened to micro kindness. That was never a thing. I think as people and as civilization, humans on this planet, we're always looking for the bad in everything or the things that don't feel good. And I think that we do that because we're conditioned to always expect something to be wrong because we think it can never be that good. And I think as humans, we fulfill our own prophecies always, so it ends up not being that good, but we can make it better and we can make it that good for sure. I think love is a red pill because I think it's scary and, and it's like, cause it's stepping outside of yourself, your entire self. And oftentimes love gives us the strength to do things that we never thought was possible. Like, like I know for like what I feel from you, like, I mean, oh, I can be like an amazing friend because this person inspires me because I really love them with all of my heart. Um, I know sometimes people like, maybe they want to change their life and they want to give their kids an entirely different, like living experience. They grew up poor, but they want their kids to grow up having more. So they go to school or they slave away at a job or whatever, but they pull out like 50, 60, 70 hour work weeks. Normally you couldn't do that, but because the reason of the love that you had for the for, for the kids or the life that you wanted to give to your loved ones was so big. Like you found that inner strength, you know, and, and it comes from the same pool of that love. Like it's the same kind of thing, you know, like everybody goes to that special place in their heart. And like, when I say the pool, I have this theory of like, we all come from like certain parts of the pool and, um, like this part of the pool, like the love part of the pool. And I've looked at this situation, like love and all that stuff, upside down, inside out. It's a fascinating thing to me. I'm still thinking about it, but like the concept is such like a phenomenon to me because it's like unexplained and it's nothing you can see. It's only the results you feel and experience. And, um, I think it's the red pill. I think love is a red pill because it shocks people into feeling something they didn't know was there. But then that feeling is so strong, you end up living for it. When, especially when you didn't know that you had something to live for, you know, like in the Matrix, they had, um, they had, uh, agents, Agent Smith wasn't an agent. Well, he was one of the agents. And basically he was like, you know, the stake isn't real. He's like, but I want it to be real. So it's like we have a reality where people are just asleep and then we have the reality of where we're actually feeling something. So that reality, we're actually feeling something is where we're tapped in to that love. And there's probably more than one emotion that takes us out of it. But you know how they say love is the strongest thing in the universe. Like, I think that's like the the major, like the major, like polar opposite of something that's felt like a side to like hate, you know, without taking us in a whole another direction. But anyways, but I think love is a, it's like a, it's like a, like a defibrillator to the chest because it wakes you up. And you ever like, it's the, it's the smallest moments that define the, the, the experience of life. Because how we do everything on a small scale kind of like reflects how we do everything on a big scale, you know? And so I think that it's a very interesting thing, like breaking down the, the, the awareness that we really have. So we're aware. So like basically back to like microaggressions. Like to, um, where did that, where did that even come from? Like that's a new thing, you know? Like when do we have micro kindness? Or like they have to cancel culture? Where's the accepting culture? Like we're always going to cancel something. Like we're looking for cancel, like where's the, like where, who's making the rules for all of this? Let's make our own rules.