Self Trust and Self Forgiveness Audit Private Podcast Epsoide

In this episode of "The Point of Impact," Nigella Vaughn explores the importance of self-trust and self-forgiveness for personal growth. She guides listeners through a self-trust and self-forgiveness audit, helping them assess their current levels and identify steps for improvement. Reflective questions are asked about decision-making, response to mistakes, negative beliefs, and personal strengths. Listeners are encouraged to challenge limiting beliefs, celebrate strengths, and visualize their future selves. The episode ends with setting intentions and reflecting on the journey of self-trust and self-forgiveness. Welcome to The Point of Impact, your private space for personal growth and development. I'm Nigella Vaughn and today we're embarking on a journey to explore and enhance our self-trust and self-forgiveness. This episode is designed to be an intimate, reflective experience. So find a quiet place, grab your self-trust and self-forgiveness audit, so you can be able to focus entirely on you. Self-trust and self-forgiveness are fundamental in our overall well-being and personal growth. They allow us to move through life with confidence, resilience, and compassion. Yet many of us struggle with trusting ourselves and forgiving our own mistakes. Today we'll be conducting a self-trust and self-forgiveness audit. This process will help us understand where we currently stand and identify steps to improve. Now let's move on to the audit. I'll ask a series of questions to help you assess your current levels of self-trust and self-forgiveness. Be honest with yourself and take your time to reflect on each question. You might want to have a journal or use the printout in the worksheet that are in the self-trust and self-forgiveness audit. Or even if you only have a piece of paper handy to jot down your thoughts. How confident do you feel when making everyday decisions? Do you rely on your intuition or do you see validation from others? Think about your recent mistakes or regrets. How do you typically respond to them? Are you kind to yourself or do you dwell on your errors? Are you able to hold space? I want you to list three negative beliefs you hold about yourself. When did you first start believing these things? And how have they affected your life up until this point? Then I want you to identify three strengths or qualities you admire about yourself. How have these strengths helped you in the past? Imagine your future self who fully trusts and forgives herself. What does her daily life look like? And how does she handle challenges and make decisions? Great job reflecting on these questions. It's a crucial step towards understanding your relationship with yourself. Now let's dive deeper into some of these areas. Let's start with limited beliefs you identify. These beliefs often stem from past experiences and external influences. Recognizing them is the first step to challenging and reaffirming them. Take one of these beliefs and write down evidence that contradicts it. For example, if you believe I'm not good enough, recall instances where you succeeded or received positive feedback. How can you start to reframe this belief into a positive affirmation for yourself? Next, let's focus on your strengths. Celebrating your strengths is essential for building trust. Reflect on these three strengths you listed. How have these qualities positively impacted your life? How can you leverage them to overcome challenges and enhance your self-trust? Now visualize your future self. The version of you who fully trusts and forgives herself. Picture her daily habits, thought patterns, and behavior. What specific changes do you need to make to become this future self? Write down three actionable steps that you can take to start this transformation. These could be small manageable actions. These could be small manageable actions that you can incorporate into your daily routine. To help us solidify these changes, let's set three specific intentions or goals. And for each intention, outline two actionable steps. For example, if your goal is to trust your intuition more, you could start by journaling daily about your intuitive feelings and making one decision each week based solely on your intuition. Finally, let's reflect on this journey. What have you learned about yourself and your ability to trust and forgive yourself? How have these perceptions and feelings changed over the past week? Identify one key insight or breakthrough moment and reflect on why it was significant. As we wrap up, I want to remind you that building self-trust and practicing self-forgiveness is a continuous journey. Be patient with yourself, hold space for yourself, and celebrate your progress along the way. Remember, you are worthy of trust and forgiveness. Thank you for joining me on this journey today.