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The radio station, 595, plays R&B, soul, and throwback music. The host, Ivy Joy, talks about the importance of responding instead of reacting to negative comments or actions. Reacting gives power to the person provoking, while responding calmly allows you to stay in control. Some people try to provoke negative reactions to make you look bad, so it's important to stay calm and not let them take your power away. The radio station continues to play music for listeners to enjoy. 595 your internet radio station that is giving you all the latest of the best in R&B soul and throwback music. Welcome back to the unlike you're down with me your girl your host Ivy Joy. I'm the Ivy Jay Show and I'ma take you to life. Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. So thankfully today we don't just remember the things that we should do. This is going to allow us to be thankful. Okay listen, listen, listen. So respond, don't react. So when you react to a person's negative comment or actions in anger, overly emotional or aggressive way, that is when you are giving that person power or dominion over you. Like if a person can easily get a rise from you then they are your puppeteer. Like then you know you are no longer in control of you. So if you take a moment and respond in calmness right like we were saying earlier on. Like uh-huh, uh-huh. Healthy, honest, and real way then you are in control of you. You are not allowing anyone to take your power away from you as a bearer. Okay listen or invoke you or invoke a reaction from you or provoke a reaction from you. Unfortunately there are certain people who want nothing more than to make you look bad by provoking you to react in a hostile way or negative manner because it just shows that you know you don't have control of yourself. And feel free to get disappointed. They want you to be disappointed. All right. You know what I'm saying. And you gotta remember that and take a breather. Pause, relax, sit back, listen. Listen like we said respond, don't react. Right. This is it. It's Ms. Dexter. Liking right here on 595. We'll be giving you all the latest, all the best R&B, soul, and throwback music right here for you. So sit back, relax, 595. Enjoy!