The complexity of relationship (Magdi 01-29-2023)

OK. One comment in one. Nothing to see here. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. Like the sunshine, shines onto the universe without any personal intention. It is simply the nature of the sun to shine. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. OK. Relationship is a place where we manifest and express the love. And it's a place of opportunity where we can learn about ourselves, about how we sometimes resist, sometimes we argue, on behalf of whom we argue on behalf of the imaginary me which has no reality outside of your belief in it. And of what good is your belief in this imaginary me in this imaginary me which leads you to argumentation, worry and concern. OK. OK. OK. OK. Is it possible to live in a relationship without a personal agenda, without a personal agenda, without defending our worldview which traps us and limits us? Is it possible to listen, listen without judgment, without defending ourselves, without attacking? Because the other is your very self. There is no other outside of the intimacy of relationship. And in the intimacy of relationship the other is your very self. Sometimes in relationship we use the other as a punching bag, dump our frustrations onto the other. Which comes right back onto us while it is available to us to be open to understand something about ourselves, about truth in relationship, to understand something about love, about freedom, about pain, about sorrow, about hurt, in the sense of loss. And the other is our friend. Often time we use the other in relationship. We use them to make us happy, we expect them to behave in certain ways. We place conditions. We are unaware how painful it is for both, for everyone involved. And yet we are so happy to be together. We are so happy to be together. We are so happy to be together. And yet we are so happy when there is an expression of love and kindness towards us. We love that. It touches our heart. Can we also do the same? Can we also be a conduit, express the love that we love to receive, to express it, to relax our conditions, relax our expectations, trust the love and the expression of love and kindness in the moment, in this moment. Not to be so preoccupied with our agendas. Not to be so judgmental. Because we don't know what the other one is experiencing, what they're perceiving, what they're sensing. We don't know. We don't know. There is vulnerability in love. Soft. It's available too. Experience whatever the universe is presenting. Love. You know, the entire non-dual teaching can be summed up in the word love. Because love is truth, and truth is beauty, and is freedom. All the divine principles are present in love. Love is not personal, it's universal. We are that universal love. When you assume yourself to be a separate person, a limited person, you are not. You are not. You are not. You are not. You are not. You are not. When you assume yourself to be a separate person, a limited personal self, the mind is deeply confused. www.mooji.org www.mooji.org We are not going anywhere as body-minds. www.mooji.org It's not about the future, but about living each moment, this moment and every moment out of love and kindness and intelligence and wisdom. www.mooji.org Whichever way we can, but to be interested in the expression of kindness and love is an impersonal expression. So explore that direction. www.mooji.org www.mooji.org www.mooji.org