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Money makes the world go round, but things get complicated if you also believe that money is the centre of the universe. This newsletter considers the relationship between money, spirituality and happiness and includes a short quiz to assess the strength of your relationship with money and your financial maturity.
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Money makes the world go round, but things get complicated if you also believe that money is the centre of the universe. This newsletter considers the relationship between money, spirituality and happiness and includes a short quiz to assess the strength of your relationship with money and your financial maturity.
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The Creative Change Newsletter for March 2023 discusses the connection between money, spirituality, and happiness. The author believes that a good relationship with money is important and that money should not be the center of the universe. Research shows that money can buy happiness up to a certain income level, but beyond that, it has minimal impact. However, a new study suggests that there is a linear and rising relationship between money and happiness, even for higher incomes. The author advocates for treating money as a means to an end and developing a mature relationship with it. They recommend reading their book and another book by George Kinder to better understand this relationship. The author also provides a quiz to assess one's money maturity and suggests focusing on areas for improvement. They note a need for help in developing a better relationship with money that allows for a more meaningful and spiritual life. The author also mentions a review of personal financial liter Hello and welcome to the Creative Change Newsletter for March 2023. Do you love money? Whilst it was surprising to see spirituality come high in the list of needs and wants in our recent questionnaire, it was less surprising to see money complete for the first place. Not surprising because money makes the world go round. However, things get complicated if you also believe that money is the centre of the universe. That is why seeing a desire for greater spirituality at the top of the list of wants and needs was so encouraging. Can you reconcile the pleasures of money with greater spirituality? Yes, I believe so as long as you have a good relationship with money that doesn't put money at the centre of the universe. Money, spirituality and happiness. I don't think it is stretching a point to equate spirituality and happiness as both stem from letting go rather than holding on or getting more. However, if you accept this premise it is worth reflecting on research into money and happiness as a proxy for spirituality. The first research papers into the connection suggest that money did buy happiness up to an income of around $75,000, approximately £62,500. However, the research showed that once your income was sufficient to cover your core outgoings and debt repayments, any additional income had a minimal impact on your happiness. However, my colleague Robin Young at Northstar Financial Planning in New Hampshire recently drew my attention to new research into the money and happiness connection. This new study which explored the issues in considerable depth concluded a linear and rising relationship exists between money and happiness, even for incomes beyond those that cover core expenditure. The new research found that money and happiness are linked to commodities and possessions. However, money does not impact happiness and it falls from relationships and friendships. Happiness or spirituality in this arena tends to come from the strength of our communities, not the money we earn. The money-spirituality relationship. I have long argued that there is a relationship between money, happiness and spirituality. Indeed, this is the theme of my book Right Money, Right Place, Right Time described by Justin Urquhart-Stewart, founder and chairman of Seven Investment Management in the UK, as the most comprehensive explanation and guide for financial planning I have ever read. In this wide-ranging personal book I advocate treating money as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself. Using perspectives from life coaching and financial planning, I describe how to always have the right money in the right place at the right time, to live and breathe, find freedom and transform our lives and the lives of others. To focus on money as an end in itself, where money becomes the centre of the universe, has blighted the relationship between money and humanity. People who think personal finance is about maximising investment returns have missed the point of money. Instead, I advocate developing a sound, mature relationship with money to enable you to always have the right money in the right place at the right time, to find room for spirituality and happiness and live meaningfully and purposefully by making a positive difference in the lives of others. Your relationship with money. A relationship with an individual is founded on exchanging ideas and feelings. However, you can't do this with money. The concept of a relationship with money sounds a bit nebulous, even if you launch expletives at your bank account, when you see that you are overdrawn again. The first couple of decades of my working life were dominated by money. I went from bonuses to broke and back and my life was dominated by greed, fear and shame. However, when I met George Kinder, described as the father of financial life planning, I began to see money in a friendlier light. So I started working with the Kinder Institute of Life Planning in the US, becoming the first registered life planner in the UK, and driving the concept of money maturity to develop a solid relationship with money. George's book, The Seven Stages of Money Maturity, is revelatory. Not only does it help you build a relationship with money by developing maturity around money, the book, in fact the whole practice of money maturity, creates a more spiritual approach to money and life. You can better understand your relationship with money by reading my and George's books. Indeed, if you are determined to live more spiritually and meaningfully by making a difference to others, you should read these books. They will help you address those niggling issues around money that may be holding you back. While emphasising your internal relationship with money, neither book neglects the importance of money practicalities such as budgeting, cash flow, savings and debt reduction. Score your money maturity. Get an initial idea of your money maturity with this short quiz I developed for clients. Although the outcome of this assessment is a score, its real purpose is to set you thinking about your relationship with money and the broader aspects of money that you may not necessarily be aware of in your day-to-day life. Score yourself on the truth of each statement. Very true, give yourself five. Somewhat true, four. Undecided, three. Somewhat false, two. And very false, one. So here are the statements. Innocence. I no longer live by childhood beliefs, thoughts, stories etc, recognising they are invalid and misleading. Pain. I don't feel recurrent pain around money or envy of others with greater wealth than me or anger at having to work for a living. Knowledge. I have identified my financial goals, assessed my financial resources and planned my finances. I review them regularly. Understanding. I know that issues around money must be dealt with within me and that successfully understanding myself will lead to a personal transformation. Vigor. My life is profoundly purposeful and energetic. I have passions and goals and the energy to act on them and my money is a help not a hindrance. Vision. My life is not centred on myself alone. I have a keen interest in the wider community to which I offer my resources and talents. A lower or grace. I give out of kindness or compassion, not out of self-interest or in the expectation something will return to me. Add up your score. A higher score indicates a greater maturity. Don't concentrate too much on your total score. Instead look at the areas in which you score well and celebrate these. Then ask yourself how you can use your skills in these areas to improve those areas in which you scored less well. Next steps. You will have probably picked up a slight change of emphasis from this and the February newsletter stemming from the responses to January's research questionnaire. It seems you still want to learn the fundamentals of personal financial management. I know from my long experience in the financial services industry that this aspect of personal finance takes second place to the sale of savings, investment and loan products so it is no surprise. However I also sense a strong need for help developing a better relationship with money which makes room for a more meaningful and spiritual life and shifts the emphasis from material wealth to generosity of spirit. To this end I draw your attention to a review of personal financial literature I compiled a few years ago. I identified 15 books that address the deeper, more meaningful, more emotional side of money and reviewed each. This is published on my personal website at Words Not Deeds and if you click the button in the text you can read the reviews. Finally after taking the advice of those far more experienced in marketing than I you'll see a gradual switch back to my personal brand Jeremy Deeds and away from specific product brands. Of course this does not mean that programs such as Living Money and Crazy for Change will be discontinued but they are on the back burner for now. Instead I return to my roots as Jeremy Deeds, a life and financial coach specializing in providing skilled help to empty nesters who want to build diverse wealth, achieve impressive personal aspirations and bring new meaning and greater spirituality to their lives. Thank you.
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