Blog: What wisdom are you sharing if you disappear? by DeniseQMurphy #prime2thrive

The author questions what wisdom they would leave behind if they were to disappear. They discuss the importance of planning for the future and leaving guidance for loved ones. They suggest writing a declaration of wishes to accompany a will, including information about oneself, one's children, and practical details. They encourage others to think about how they can take care of themselves and their loved ones in case of incapacitation or death. The author seeks ideas and actions from readers to improve the process of passing on important information. What Wisdom Are You Sharing If You Disappear? By Denise Q. Murphy If I Disappear With A Magic Wand, What Would I Wish For Those Who Truly Love Me? Would I Sit Frustrated On A Heavenly Cloud Moaning, That Does Not Please Me, I Ask For A Commemorative Bench Not A Fucking Tree If Sedated Waiting A While To Heal, Would I Want Friends To Keep My Son Away Or Let Him Come And Hug Me? How Can I Scribe Wishes That Are Wise Whilst Practical, Amusing And Agile? The Decade I've Lost Hearing Will And Attorney Law Complications But These Documents Won't Share If My Son Likes Bacon How Can We Create A Living How-To Guide That Maintains Your Home Life Riches, I Throw Out My Virtual Fishing Hook To You To Help Me Write My Declaration Of Wishes Our Worlds Are Volatile Which Is Evidenced By Covid, Unexpected Wars, Health And Relationship Issues To Combat These Life Challenges, I Am Keen To Get My Affairs In Order And Have Peace Of Mind Knowing I've Done What I Can For My Loved Ones And Me, Of You I've Started With A Traditional Solution Of Writing A Declaration Of Wishes, An Informal Letter To Accompany My Will, Providing Useful Guidance To Anyone, Hopefully, Looking After Me, My Loved Ones Or Possessions If I Can't But What Would Be Practical Information For Them? What Format, How Do We Keep This Current And Not A Subfest When Writing It? My Instinct Was To Include Headings Of 1. Introduction, 2. Summary, 3. About Me, Including Incapacitating Me, Funeral Gifts, 4. About My Son, Including A Letter To My Son, His Food Preferences, His Routine For Morning And Bedtime But What Else Is Missing? Tell Me What Is Your Plan To Look After Yourself, Your Loved Ones Or Your Stuff? Should Your Health Prevent You From Doing So? What Wisdom Are You Leaving To Help Those Kind People Stepping In To Fill The Gaps On Your Exit? What Guidance Have You Given So That They Are Confident They Are Taking The Best Actions To Reduce The Suffering You Have Left Behind? Let's Work Together To Prime Our Thinking So We Help Them Survive Better. I've Shared A Few Ideas So Please Tell Me What Actions You Have Taken And What Methods You Have Used. I Am Sure We Can Do This Better And Discover Ways To Make This Information Handover Fun With Improved Outcomes For Us And Our Loved Ones. Tell Me 3 Actions You Have Taken Or Are Going To Take In The Next Week Is Your Life's Contingency. Hashtag Prime To Thrive.