the-broken-man

The main ideas from this information are: - The topic of discussion is the broken man and the lack of attention given to men's struggles compared to women's. - Men often suffer silently and process their emotions differently than women. - Men may go into their "man cave" to deal with their emotions, but this may not truly address the underlying issues. - The brokenness of men often stems from childhood and unresolved traumas. - It is important to pray for and understand the experiences of men in order to support them. - Praying for healing and deliverance from spiritual problems is crucial in addressing the brokenness of men. - Generational curses and spiritual compromises can have a negative impact on men's well-being. - Women should pray for their partners and seek spiritual guidance to support them effectively. You are listening to Joe Radio. Radio. Listen. Advertise. Share. Good day and welcome to Joe Radio live. Blessings, blessings, blessings. You know how we do. Blessings to you and your family. Thank you for being on the inside with us. In this program we are going to be talking about the broken man. Alright, we are going to be talking about the broken man. Because a lot of times we hear about women and what women are going through. But we don't really hear much about the men in terms of what they are going through and what they are dealing with and all that kind of thing. Alright, so we are going to be talking about that in this program. But just before we get into the meat of the matter, we are going to your Hittite Scripture. And in this Hittite Scripture, in this program, sorry, our Hittite Scripture comes from James chapter 4, verse 4. And it says, Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever, therefore, will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. I'll read it again. Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever, therefore, will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. And that was taken from James chapter 4, verse 4. That was your Hittite Scripture. Excuse me. Alright, so back to the topic. We are talking today about the broken man. And going through some videos and stuff, I came across one where a presenter was talking about a situation that took place. And it was really sad. Well, it was sad on both sides. It was sad on the woman's side and it was also sad on the man's side. But it was really, really more sad on the man's side. And a lot of times we hear about domestic violence and all these different things. But we do not hear much about the men that are suffering. Especially suffering silently in our society. And there are a lot of men that are really, really suffering silently. Because men process different to women. Women are more outspoken. If something is bothering them, they will talk about it and stuff. And they will talk about it in detail. Alright? But in the case of the men, we go into that man cave. And you know T.D. Jakes, he has done messages on this. Right? Where he talks about the man going into his cave and he carries his toys with him. And he will stay there for an indefinite amount of time. Right? And basically the toys that the man would take with him as he goes into his man cave. The toys are basically the things that would comfort him while he is there. Right? So you hear about people going into a midlife crisis and stuff like that. Right? And sometimes they may do things that they should not be doing at their age and stuff like that. But they go into something and that is their way of dealing with it. And sometimes they think that by doing these things they are dealing with it. But they are really not dealing with it. And sometimes some of the things that they do that they should not be doing can actually, you know, exasperate the problem. Right? So we are talking about the broken man. And it basically starts from childhood. Right? There are men who have been abused and stuff like that. And they have not really healed from whatever they would have gone through in their childhood. And stuff like that. And you see undelte hurt is really, really dangerous. That's why they say hurting people hurt people. So you see a lot of these men that are hurting women in these domestic violence situations. Right? Now the thing about it is because everybody handles things differently. They are broken men. They are the ones that turn out to be abusers and stuff. But they are broken men who don't turn out to be abusers. But that doesn't mean that they are not suffering on the inside. That doesn't mean that they are not suffering in silence. And sometimes women can miss these things. And they don't recognize that the man is actually hurting. And so they may see the man lashing out in different ways and they don't realize that the man is hurting. And so it's really important, you know, when entering a relationship to really check. You know, many times we look at the outward appearance. You know, the handsomeness of the man, the beauty of the woman and stuff like that. But many times we don't do a thorough check on the background of the person. And when I say the background, I ain't just talking the financial background or the job-wise or the family. But the most important background check I think you need to do on somebody when you enter a relationship is the spiritual background, right? And there are some things that you will never find out about the person unless God reveals it to you. Which brings me to pray, right? It brings me to pray. But just before we continue as we are on this topic, if you are listening to this and you do not have a relationship with Jesus Christ, and maybe you can relate in one way or the other to what I have already said so far, right? And you would like to accept Jesus Christ because you don't have a relationship with him. And, you know, you want to make a change, it's a new year and you want to really improve yourself and that kind of thing. Improve your life. I am telling you, Jesus is the way to go. Jesus is for everybody. You know, there are some things that are not for everybody. I'm going to tell you right now. Jesus is for everybody, right? Now, everybody doesn't want him, but all of us need him. So, if you want to accept Jesus Christ into your life right now, it's very quick, simple and easy. Just say, Lord Jesus, I come to you as sinner. I repent of all of my sins. I ask of your mercy and your forgiveness. Come into my life. I make you my Lord and Savior from today onwards. In Jesus' name I pray. If you said that prayer genuinely meant it from your heart, welcome to the body of Christ. Get a King James Version Bible and begin to read and study the word of God. Alright? And just watch God do some amazing things in your life. Watch God heal you from every hurt and pain. And I am telling you, he is the great physician. He can heal you from every hurt and pain. There is nothing that is too great for him. It doesn't matter what you've been through. God could handle it. God could heal you. He could bring you through and everything. Alright? So, we're going back to the topic, the broken man. Right? And as I was saying, we were on the topic of prayer. And this is where you need to pray. Whether it's for your boyfriend, whether it's for your husband, you need to pray for your partner. Right? You need to pray for your partner. Because you do not know what that man has been through. You do not know what the man is going through at that very moment. And many times, women miss it. Many times, some women, sorry, miss it. And all they see is the man lashing out or being reserved and stuff like that. But they don't know the whys. They don't know the whys. Right? And a man could go into his man cave and never come out. Some men go in there and they never come out. Because, you see, unless you are healed from that hurt and that pain, you're going to keep going through that repetitive cycle for the rest of your life until you are healed, until you are delivered. And the thing about it is doors are opened. Right? So you might have gone through a particular trauma. And the thing about it is fear opens doors. Any traumatic experience will make you fearful. Any traumatic experience. So the minute you go through a traumatic experience and you become fearful, fear opens doors. And fear opens doors to other things. Right? So we need to be careful. And I want to tell you ladies, whether it's your boyfriend, whether it's your husband, your fiancé, whatever it be, pray for your partner. Pray for your partner. It is very, very important. Especially if this is somebody that you are going to marry. Especially if this is somebody you have already married. Pray for your partner. Because only God can heal and change that person and help that person with whatever they are going through. Because there are things that people are going through. And they are spiritual. They are spiritual. So you talking to the person, talking could only do so much. When somebody has a spiritual problem, you can talk to them from now until eternity. And it may most likely do nothing. Because it's a spiritual problem. And when you are dealing with a spiritual problem, you have to deal with it in a spiritual way. Right? So you have to pray for that person. You have to pray that God would heal and deliver that person and break whatever needs to be broken. Sometimes people are operating under curses and they do it. No. Generational curses, transference of spirits. Because once you are not under the blood of Jesus, you are not covered under the blood of Jesus and the hand of God's protection is not on your life. You are open to anything. It's like, when you have HIV, from my understanding, when you have HIV, if you are HIV positive, your immune system, that's the real core of the thing I want to get to, your immune system. When your immune system is compromised, anything could take you out. We saw that in the middle of COVID, especially at the beginning of COVID, as we were beginning to understand this thing. Right? Once your immune system is compromised, anything could take you out and kill you. And it is the same thing. Once your spiritual mind is compromised, anything could take you out. Right? Anything could take you out when your spirit mind is compromised. Alright? So, I want to encourage you ladies to pray for your partner. Right? You may not understand what he is going through. You may not understand why he is behaving how he is behaving. Why he has probably either begun to lash out or become reserved and maybe not speaking as much as he normally would. He is more quiet and stuff like that. He wants to be by himself more. All these kind of things and stuff like that. Right? Every man will not respond in the same way. That is why you have some of them that respond in a violent manner and then you have those that are just reserved. You know, they are just reserved. So, I want to tell you, if you have a broken man, as a woman, if you have a broken man and you know this is the man that God has for you, I want to encourage you to pray for that man. If you see things taking place that you don't understand, pray for that man. Now, if it is a life and death situation, then you already know what to do. Right? But if it is not a life and death situation, pray for that man as much as possible. Ask God, Lord, show me how to pray for this man. Right? But if your life is threatened, I do not even have to tell you what to do. You already know what to do. Right? Protect yourself. Get out of that situation. Unless God tells you to stay, then God knows what you are doing. If God tells you to stay in a situation, in a violent situation, then God knows what you are doing. I am telling you. Again, you may not understand it, but you have to know what God is telling you in your situation. Right? But I just wanted to highlight, because we hear so much about women and what they are going through, but we rarely hear about the men and what they are going through. And there needs to be a balance. There needs to be a balance. Right? Women have issues. Men have issues. And most of the time, we hear about the women's issues, but we don't hear about the men's issues and how to help them and how to deal with it and stuff like that. Alright? So I pray that something that I would have said would have been a blessing to you. Right? In this program, as with all the other programs and programs to come. Thank you for listening. And if you are in a situation like that right now, I just want to say a short prayer in the name of Jesus. I pray for every listener. I pray, firstly, for those who go into this particular type of situation. And I pray, Lord God, that you would really touch them and you would intervene. I pray that if they don't know you, if they didn't invite you into their life just now, I pray that they would do it quickly because this is the only way that they will get through whatever problems they are going through in their relationship. I pray that the men that may be listening to this, I pray healing for them. I pray for the women, healing for them as well. And I pray that you would give the women the know-how to deal with the men, to deal with the broken men, right? So that relationships can be mended and healed and restored and they could have a fulfilling life. All right? So, Lord, I thank you for doing this. Thank you for every single listener. I pray that they have the best day of their life. Thank you, the listener, for listening, right? Always grateful to you for that. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for another program that we have been able to do. And we trust that we would have been a blessing in Jesus' name. Until the next one, J.C. Vibes is gone. Looking forward to seeing you all in our next program. Take care, people.