saying no

The podcast episode discusses the importance of saying no and surrounding yourself with good people. Saying no is often met with backlash, but it is necessary to make sacrifices and prioritize goals. It is important to say no to things that don't align with your dreams and goals. Surrounding yourself with good people is crucial because they support and encourage your success. The speaker shares their personal experiences of saying no and how it helped them achieve their goals. The key takeaway is to always keep your goals in mind and cut out anything that doesn't bring you closer to them. hello hello on today's podcast episode we are going to be talking about saying no saying no to what why should i say no surrounding yourself with good people my personal experiences with saying no stay tuned and enjoy it you know sit back and relax firstly let's talk about saying no saying no comes with a lot of backlash from a lot of people because at the end of the day everybody wants to fit in in some kind of category but in in life when you have goals in whatever you want to achieve if it's athletic if it's reading a book if it's studying getting a new job you're gonna have to make sacrifices for those things and sometimes a party might come around or get together or uh you know on these terms and you're gonna have to say no to them because why you have a goal in mind you have a future goal that you're looking forward to and if you did go to this party or you did go to this get together you might hinder yourself at maybe learning a new trade or a new skill or whatever so but in the actual fact of saying no saying no just means taking into account what you have and a goal that you have and saying no to anything else that comes in the way of that secondly is saying no to what what are we actually saying no to and going back off of the partying situation saying no to parties saying no to things that aren't getting you closer to your dream or your goal those are the things you should be saying no to because those things are the things that hold you back and keep you from where you where you're supposed to be in reaching your full potential why should i say no many people ask this of oh it's fine let me just you know enjoy my life or whatever but i say no to that i'm i believe strongly in saying no but saying no to the right things because you can say no to everything but you might say no to an opportunity that might help you so always keep that in mind say no to the things that aren't getting you closer to your dream and say yes in fact to the opportunities that arise from saying no surrounding yourself with good people many people don't surround themselves with good people they surround themselves with people who lie to them people who joke around with them people who genuinely don't want the best for them people who are fake friends and people who just aren't actually wanting you to see or see you succeed in life so please if you can take anything from this podcast please make it this surround yourself with good people because the saying always does go around the five people you surround yourself with most that is your average so if you are surrounding yourself with pretty crappy people best believe your average is gonna be crappy lastly my experiences in saying no saying no for me has has always been very tough from a very young age because i've always been the kind of person to help people trying to fit in do things that i didn't want to do and after a while because i had goals in mind ambitions that i wanted to go for and i think it was around 15 or 16 where i put my foot down and i was like i can't do this anymore i'm done and i said no to partying i said no to going out with friends and i was obsessed with my goal and from that day on that's why i can say i've got a professional contract in football to saying no to all these parties and saying yes to the opportunities that have arrived from saying no so i just want you to take from this short little podcast always have your goals in mind if they don't bring you closer cut them out your life they aren't required so yeah until next time it was thunder enjoy