Food for thought Fridays surgery / mental abuse

Pamela Denise discusses the topic of cosmetic surgery, highlighting that there can be valid medical reasons for undergoing these procedures. She mentions cases such as breast reduction for back pain. However, she poses the question of when is enough too much, and when should doctors say no to further surgeries. Pamela also expresses empathy for those who have suffered complications or even lost their lives due to cosmetic surgery. She briefly touches on the subject of abusive relationships, emphasizing that abuse starts when one allows disrespect. She acknowledges that abuse can happen in any relationship, not just with black men. Pamela concludes by encouraging open discussions about relationships and self-love. Hello y'all, this is your girl Pamela Denise and welcome to my show, Black Women's Butts and Our Black Men Relationships. Today we have Food for Thought Fridays. I'm not going to keep you guys on long, but we have some things to talk about. And just to put it, today, food for thought. Again, you're with your girl, Pamela Denise. First we have, food for thought Fridays consist of when should we say no when deciding to have surgeries, cosmetic surgeries that is. Because women have health reasons, that could be one of the reasons why they choose to have a surgery. You have some women, which has been done years, years, years, years, years, years, started years ago, that have a lot of back pain due to large breasts, so they go under and get a breast reduction. And you truly honestly never know the reason why someone decides to get cosmetic surgery. That would actually be a medical procedure due to having back pain. There's many more out there guys, the reasons why people choose to have some sort of cosmetic surgery to reduce or alter the appearance or their bodies, to make things better in their life. And I recently saw a show where the gentleman of the significant other, he pleaded with his significant other not to have the surgery, the day of the surgery, when she's in the operating room, it was so emotional to watch. But you know, ultimately, her reason was she's doing this for herself. And that's just one of those things that you have to make a decision on. But food for thought suggests that there could be, you know, medical reasons why we choose to have surgeries. But when is enough too much? When should doctors say no? You have one, you go back for two, you go back for three. When should doctors say no? Because if doctors don't tell you no, then your body will. And that's a bad place to be. My heart goes out to many of the women who have lost their lives due to complications during and after cosmetic surgery. Again, my name is Pamela Denise, and today is Food for Thought Friday. I also want to touch on just a little bit, we'll have some guest speakers come on and talk about our beginning subjects. We are in the first stages of our show. And we are glad that you are here with us in this journey. We're going to start talking about more about relationships with our partners. And not to suggest any, you know, abuse is done by only black men, and abuse in a relationship can be done, you know, with anyone. So let's just be clear there. The views on this show are sometimes my opinion and sometimes not. But we all know, today, this is Food for Thought. In relationships, abuse starts when you let people disrespect you. You not only let just your partner, and once it starts with your partner, it's almost like everyone around you, you let disrespect you. That's where the abuse starts. And again, the views on this show could be my opinion or not, but this is this is, this is what I think. I mean, obviously, you could definitely be with someone that has mental mental issues is the reason why they are taking an abusive route towards you. But when you, when it starts and you do nothing about it, that's when you, you may need to take a look at things around you and things that are going on with you. You know, at some point, you must decide. And you must also realize at some point in your mind, you've also made the decision that you're not good enough, or your partner has decided that you're not good enough. And this is a real situation, because now your mind has work to do. And you don't even realize that you've just put your mental health at risk. All right, guys, Food for Thought Fridays. This is just our short version. And just remember, love who you love. But let's talk about it, baby. I am your girl, Pamela Denise, and today is Food for Thought Fridays.