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Mr. and Mrs. W attend the Southern Invasion to Swindon Swingers event. They discuss their outfits and the journey to the club. They meet up with Marvellous Stag and Vixen and interact with other people at the club. Mrs. W has a conversation with a single lady and later expresses interest in another woman. They have a group photo and continue to socialize at the club. Welcome to our podcast. This is Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Swingin' Adventures. I am Mr. W. And I am Mrs. W. So on tonight's episode we're going to be talking about the Southern Invasion to Swindon Swingers. We attended this event with the marvellous Stag and marvellous Vixen, aka the lady with the red hair and the man with the blue suit. So, where to begin with that night? Oh, that was a pain from the get-go. So, trying to get sorted and get out the door. Oh, that was... I actually left in my pyjamas. Yeah. I drove down there, or you drove down there. Oh, yeah. And I was wearing my pyjamas. And I had an outfit, so at least I had an outfit. Yeah. But I was like, I am not getting dressed till the last minute. Well, no, because it's three hours from our house. Yeah. I can't even remember what I wore though, what I wore to go there. What was I wearing at the moment? Were you in your poo? No, not my pyjamas. Oh. What did I plan to wear that night? Weren't it the dress from the Vixen Glams event? Oh, yeah, it was. Recycling. Right, upcycling. So, we had previously discussed outfits with... Marvellous Vixen. Yeah. And she had actually said to me that she was going to wear her green dress that she wore when we first met her at LB. And I said to her, well, if you're going to wear your green dress... You'll wear... I'll wear my dress that I wore. So, then it's like it was coming up to a year. Year's anniversary of that. Yeah, of like meeting them. So, we decided we were going to wear what we wore the first night we saw each other. Sad for some, but... Hey-ho. Yeah, I decided I didn't want to travel in my dress. No, my luck. I'd have a drink, miss my mouth, and the dress would be ruined. Yeah. We got down there and got parked up. We actually got parked up quite easily, didn't we? Yeah. We got to the club before they... Well, no, we thought we got to the club before they did. So, we tried getting hold of her and we're like, you know, we're here. And she was like, we've literally just walked in. We're like, okay, rather than see them outside, we sort of go up, go in and see... See them in there. Yeah, again, because it's a new club. You have to eat your bearings. Yeah, and not only is it trying to find my bearings, but the fact that I only knew you, Marvellous Stag and Marvellous Vixen, it was the fact of I'm in an empty shell, so to speak. Like... It's like going anywhere new, you've got to figure out your bearings and what you're doing. Yeah, and that was well and truly far from home, well and truly out my comfort zone. But I knew I had to do it. Yeah, because at the end of the day, we wanted to visit the club. If not, we wouldn't have took the three hour drive to get there. Not just the fact of wanting to visit the club. So, because Marvellous Stag and Vixen are our friends, it was more the fact that we wanted to go and support them. Oh yeah, we'd always said that we'd support them. We wouldn't have actually gone down to that club at that point. In our journey. Yeah, yeah, not at all. And that's what I feel that, you know, that's why I think it was so quick for me. And trying to bear in mind, I'm here to support friends and this is why I'm getting on with it. Yeah, and try and make new friends. Yeah, even if they are so far away. Yeah. So, anyway, we went in, said hello to them and there was a few people with them. Yep. And they had sort of said, oh, this is Mr. and Mrs. W. And they like to make their little joke, don't they? Yes. So, we, obviously, they introduced us, obviously, I think a lot of them knew us from them, like, speaking about us. Yeah, or, no, I get what you mean, like, just as in, you know, they know some of their stories about us. And it was more the fact that we're on their Discord as well. Yep. So, you know, they sort of know who we are from there. And I think that lightened it a bit for me. Yeah. Even though I didn't have a clue who they were. No. We ended up going for a tour. And, as always, after this tour, we grabbed a drink. Yep. Once we had got our drink. Went to the smoking area. Where we always end. Yep. Every club, we spent 95% of our time in the smoking area. Yeah. It was nice. So, it was a small sort of bar seating area, wasn't it? And the smoking area was upstairs. Right up the top, wasn't it? Yeah, like a rooftop balcony, which I thought was quite nice. And the club wasn't even like... It weren't dark. It weren't sort of dingy and it... No. It was light. It was airy. Yeah. Right word. But I thought it was good being up on the top because... Because it was in like a middle of a town centre. Like, you didn't have anyone like looking over. Like, from other bars or places. It was up the top, out of the way. So, you could be discreet if you were dressed down. No one would see you. And yeah, it was quite a nice little place up there. Yeah, I did like it. So, we sort of flitted. Between there and... Flitted. Flitted isn't even a word. Flick. No. I don't know. We basically... We moved. Yeah, we moved around. We moved around the club. You know, just browsing rooms, going for a drink, going to the toilet. And just sort of having our time. Yeah. Because we'd walk off, just the two of us. Yep. And then sort of go find the others... Later on. Yeah. At one point, when we were sitting up the top, I think... Well, we were sat over the way, weren't we? Out of the way. Out of the way from the rest of the group. Yeah. So, because obviously I'm not a social butterfly, it was the case of, let's just sit... Out of the way. Yeah. Just back, just chilling out. We could still hear them. We could still have a conversation. It wasn't like we were a million miles away from each other. And I think they sort of noticed that. So, every now and again, people were sort of speaking and... Yeah, and then Marvellous Vixen asked for you to go over, didn't she? Yeah, so... And I just stayed there, chilled on the chair. Yeah, just casually laying on a sun lounger that night. Yeah. I was getting the moonlight. So, I went and sat with her for a bit. I think it was more the case of, she... She was trying to get you to interact with the rest of the girls. Yeah, but I also think it's because she knew our sort of ease, knowing that she was there, if that made sense. Yeah. So, I think it was the fact of, she knew that I knew her, so I'd feel a bit more at ease. But anyway, so, one of the single ladies... So, she was going to come and sit with me, because obviously I was sat there by myself. She did actually turn around and say, is it all right if I sit with him and have a chat? Which I quite like. Yeah, that was like asking to come over. Yeah. Because if she'd come and just sat there, you could have been one of the ones who were like... I could have just said. Yeah. The green-eyed poncer. Yeah. So, no, it was fine with me. You know, if you'd sit there, have a chat. I had, or should I say, we had heard stories of this single lady before anyway. Yeah. So, we knew that she was fine. We knew that it wasn't a case of as soon as she saw you as a single sitting there, that she was going to pounce, do you know what I mean? So, it was sort of, it was nice. And I think you actually had quite an in-depth conversation with her, didn't you? I think so. I can't remember that far back. It will come back to me. It will come back. Probably halfway through this, it will come back. Yeah. So, I think we'd done a group photo at that point. We all had done a big group photo that she'd put on. Yeah, and she moved over to you, back over to you guys. Done the photo and then she'd come back over and we carried on just talking about, like, dynamics and... Yeah. ...general things. And I don't think it was actually that long after that we then went for a walk again. I think we went to go get a drink. And I actually turned round to you in the bar and I said, someone's caught my eye tonight. See if you can guess who it is. Yeah. And at this point, Mr W obviously knows my type. Yes. Especially in women. And he actually guessed wrong. Did I? Yes, you did. Yeah, I did. And I was like, no, what are you on about? Think again. Then he actually tweaked who I was on about. Oh, yes. Oh my God, I did. And she was absolutely stunning. And we had actually sort of had a bit of an interaction chat with them a little bit earlier, I think, sort of a hello and passing. Probably. And I think it was because her partner had spoke to me or spoke to us. And then she joined him, I think it was. Yes. In one of the corridors. I think so. So with that, as we were leaving the bar, he sort of, you know, put his hand out to me and was like, you know, how are you doing? Are you having a good evening? We were like, yeah, not too bad, thanks. And he was like, oh, we'd have to catch up in a bit. So with that, we then decided I needed a wee before we went back up. Yep. So we went round to the corridor bit where the toilets were. I went away and I come back out and we're just sitting there talking for a few minutes. They had like a little breakfast bar type thing. It was quite nice to just, no one was about. So it was like a recap on how our night was going so far, which was nice. It just, you know, little our time and then someone passed and it was like we sort of quieted while they were walking through and things. Then one of the other single ladies who was with them, she come through and said, you guys all right? And we were like, yeah, we're just having a quick five minutes chatting. Yeah. So we had previously spoke to her on the balcony. Yep. I say balcony, on the rooftop. And she was a nice lady. Like we got on quite well, I thought. Yeah, we did. Had some good conversations. In my eyes, she sort of made it clear there was an interest of some sort. Yeah. And then next thing I know is we're talking by this sidebar thing. She literally went in for a kiss, didn't she? I think so. But she went for you first. Yeah. And then me. And then didn't Marvellous Vixens turn up at that point? Yeah, I think she then walked past and was like, OK. Like, you know, she just casually went through to the toilets. Yeah. And with that, the single female, she then went through to the toilets. And I think that was when Stag also turned up as well. So everyone just seemed to have slightly appeared. But again, it's not an issue. You can kiss who you like. Yeah. You do you, babe. Yeah. So with that, I think we then went back up. Yeah. And we were just chatting away to everyone again. Well, I say chatting away to everyone. I sort of more looked around and listened than spoke. Because I was still trying to find my bearings, even halfway through the night. And we then started to talk to... The couple. They had come upstairs. Yeah. So we'll call that couple D&P. Yeah. They were so easy to talk to. But as they were talking, I think you were still speaking to the other single lady. Yeah. And at this point, I was fine sort of standing with everyone else. Yeah. And having a conversation. Because you were more having a conversation in a group with D&P. Yeah. With Vixen and I think there was a couple of others there. That was going smooth. Yeah. Until I hit a bit of a brick wall and I got slightly frustrated. Yeah. So, Stag actually walked over and said, how do you feel that your boyfriend is talking to my girlfriend? Yeah. And you went, my husband. And I went, yeah, my husband. Because you are my husband. Yeah. And this is, we have had that joke with Marvellous Vixen. But not in that context. But I think it was the fact that we were speaking to people we didn't know. Mm-hmm. I think it was also the fact of, you know, I was uneasy that night anyway. Yeah. It was a new place. We wasn't 100% on it. Yeah. And then to say that was just a bit like, what the fuck? Yeah. And that sort of pissed me off. But I just sort of grin and bared it and just put on a smile. And I was like, I'll speak to you after. Because I wasn't just going to walk straight over and go, come for a chat now. I'm pissed off. Right. Because I didn't want to affect what was going on around us. But we have cleared that up. We have cleared that up since, yes. And I just, yeah, I just got on with what we were doing. And then we then started speaking to Naughty and Nice, didn't we? No. Oh, premature on that one there. Mm-hmm. Right. So we ended up just coming back as a group, didn't we? I think me and... Yeah, a couple of the group members had sort of drifted off. And then I think they went to go and do their own thing, which, you know, is everyone's say. Yeah. And I think that was then when Vixen was like, I need sex. Like, let's just go and have a fucking massive orgy. And P was like down the stairs like a bullet. He was. So he darted downstairs to find a room. And someone had said to Dee, if he finds a room, how are we going to know? Because if he comes back up, somebody else is going to steal that room. She was like, no, no, I've got my phone on me. He'll message. Yeah. And within seconds, she received a phone call, I actually think it was. Yeah, it was. Saying, I've got the big room. Yeah. So everyone sort of bundled downstairs. And at this point, once we had got down, I was like, shit, I've just realised what's going on. Yeah. And I think I actually got in the door first. I don't know why I ended up in the door first. I think you and Stag had got in the door first. Possibly, but I got in the door and I went straight behind the door. Or I hid in that corner and... Then I come in and push you out a little bit and I got in the door. Slightly, yeah, you were like, what are you doing in the corner? And I think you sort of shuffled around me so you could be in the corner. Yeah. So with that, it was then the case of, I think I got told by Stag, I need to get out of the corners because he's so used to knowing that I like corners. Yeah, because he knows us. He knows us from the birth to the day where we were sat in the corner. Yeah. So I literally said, all right, I'll get out of the corner. And I moved from that corner to the other corner, which was in the corner of the bed. Yeah. So I then see you speaking to P and he had actually said to you, is she game? Oh, yeah. And I was like, well, yeah, but she'd just take a couple of minutes to get her bearings. So with that, the next thing I know is he's like right in front of me and he's like, are you all right if I kiss you? And I was like, uh, yeah, like... Yeah, there's no doubt. I didn't know what to say, I didn't know what to do. I was just, I was like, yeah, but I'm sitting here, like, I'm not moving. And it sort of went from a kiss to play and I enjoyed myself. I think I was playing with Vixen at that point. Yeah, quite possibly. Yeah, yeah, I think it was. I literally don't know who was playing with who at what point, in all honesty. But I remember playing with P to start with and then I think, I then worked my way back towards the end of the bed, towards where the door was. Yeah. Because I felt closed in. Like, yes, we were all closed in a room. It was a small room. Oh my God. I can't even remember how many of us were in there. But... Ten. At one point, I think, yeah. Yeah. So with that, I then went and sat by the edge of the bed. And that's when Sag was playing with D. Was it? Yeah, so I think, I don't know what made me say it, but I was like, let me play. Like, get out of the way to him so I could get in between her legs. Yeah. Not gonna lie, she was the woman who had caught my eye from the minute I saw her. Yeah. She is my type all over. And I couldn't actually wait. I was quite excited. I think that's what gave me the confidence to be like, I want to go now. Yeah, get out of my way. And it was like, I don't know, it was just such a different thing because you play with people and it's not an issue. But I think I was quite into wanting to play with her. So with that, I sort of done what I needed to do. Got my head down there. Cracked on. Yeah. And in all honesty, what she said after, I was quite pleased with. Yeah. I can't remember whether it was, I made her shiver or sank, wasn't it? Yeah. She had, yeah. So I was pleased with that. And I think I then left the room for a bit. Did you leave with me? I think. Went and got some air. Yeah. Yes, we went and got some air. Yeah. Because with that, when we went upstairs, naughty and nice. Was there? Yeah. So naughty and nice. But one of them, not both. He was and she joined, weren't it? She was there. Was she? Yeah, she was there then and he joined. I don't know. Maybe they can correct us on that one. Yeah. But, so naughty and nice. She's nice. She's nice and he's naughty. Yeah. Which we will also possibly name them as A and K. Yeah. So. Or peach and snake. Yes, peach and snake. But peach and snake come a little bit later. In, yeah, in, yeah. So with that, I think it was just silly conversations, like kids and computer games and. Yeah. Just general conversations about kids. Yeah. But it was really nice and there was something there. Yeah, like. From that conversation. It wasn't like a conversation you needed to sit there and go, right, I'm so and so, this is what I'm into, what you're into, you know. And it was just, there was no initial, we're going to play. It was more like you're chatting to a friend. Yeah. And that's what we kind of like or what we try to aim for in our friendship or connection with someone. You can have that conversation where it's just flowing and you're not, yeah, well, what's your dynamic or, oh. Yeah, like we didn't struggle to find a conversation. No. Which, again, like I said, I do, I did enjoy. So I think once we had had that conversation, we headed back down to that room. Yeah. And. Then they then come in with us. Yeah. With the single lady. Yeah. And that's where it all. Yeah. So the single lady that Mr. W was talking to, she then decided to join in and D was actually playing with her. Yeah. And she had actually said, can someone give me a hand here? And you're like, yep, tag in. I was like, yeah, I will. Like, but I did put my hand on her leg, the single lady's leg. And I said, is that okay? Yeah. And she was like. Ask for her permission. Yes. I'm not going to not ask. No, but a lot of people would have just been like, yeah, all right. Yeah. In that situation, a lot of people would have just dived in with whoever, whenever. But she was like, yeah, that's fine. So again, I done what I needed to do, go in between her legs, give D a hand. And I think then after that situation, I then ended up in another sort of corner on the bed by the door. And at this point you were somewhere on that bed. I think I was at the back with D. Yeah, quite possibly. Yeah, I was because you were with Mr. No, I wasn't with that one yet. So I was sitting on the edge of the bed. Yeah. You were in the middle of the bed somewhere. And all I hear Mr. W say is, well, give me a minute. Yeah. And she literally was like, no, come here. And I laughed. And I was like, he's about to shoot his loads, give him a second. Oh my God, I've never seen a woman go, no, get in and out. So fucking quick. Yeah. She was quite eager for that one. Yeah. But it was nice because she sort of realised as well, you know, that. I needed to stop because if not. Yeah. And then that was when I believe Mr. Jay. Jay was standing next to me. And I think there was a bit of playing going on between me and Mr. Jay. I'm pretty sure you were playing with him while she was. And you stop and you heard me and turn around and laugh and then said what you said. Possibly. I've got a habit of stopping mid-flow and be like, you know, saying something that's happening with you. Yeah. So quite possibly you may be right, but I personally think Mr. Jay is a private person. So he actually said to me, do I want to go to a different room? Like go to the swing room, which is literally dead opposite. And that's where you wanted to try anyway. So, yeah, I was desperate to get on the swing. Yeah. But I said, hold on a minute. And I actually turned around to you and said, is it OK for me to just pop next door? Because that was actually something we've never done. No. We've always been in the same room. Yeah. Either on the same bed or the same sort of area, but never have we been in separate rooms with doors shut and stuff like that. Yeah. And. That was a big one. Yeah. I'm not sure whether you said yes for the pure fact of you were full on happy for me to go or whether you said yes because of the situation that you was in. You weren't fussed, if that made sense. Not fussed is probably the wrong word. No, I was fine with it because as we've always said, that was going to be the situation. If we're both distracted or both doing something, then we're OK with that. Yeah. And obviously I was busy. With Dee at the time. It was either Dee or Vixen. Wine. But I did. I ended up getting up and going into this room. Now, I'm not exactly tall. Nope. And I felt like such a tit. So I've looked at this swing and I've gone, how do I get in this? And he was like, just sort of lift yourself up and slide yourself back. And I went, but I'm really short. Do I just jump or something? So I sort of held on and jumped up in. Oh, my God. I would definitely try the swing again. I think everyone around us knew, I'll try the swing again. Yeah, because at that point, I'd actually got to play with the single lady. And the weirdest thing that ever happened to me was playing and it never happened to me. No. And I felt really bad for her because it isn't the first time she's had that happen. Yeah, but I think it was more the fact of the room was so hot. There was a lot of bodies in there. There was no, like, windows. There was no air con. There was in one area and everyone was like... Huddled under it, but it was shit. Yeah. Like, proper shit. And I think I'm glad I took time away from that room to play. It needed an in and out fan. Yeah. One pushing in, one pulling out. Yeah. Because it was no good. Definitely. But I was unaware about Mr. W with this single lady because I was occupied. But while I was in there, all of a sudden, in this little window gap... That they have. And I think that's actually quite a good little thing. Yeah, but I knew there was a window, but I didn't know anybody could actually see in it. I thought it was high up. But all of a sudden... It is. You have to, like, crane up and over. I sort of hear you say, you all right in there? No. Was it not? No. It was Nice, turned around and went... No, before that. No, it wasn't. Was it not? No. Nice said, I wonder who Mr. J is with? And I turned around and went, yeah, that's my wife. And got up and she, like, looked round. And obviously, we hadn't had a full conversation with him. So I felt a bit awkward at that point. Like, stood behind her. Yeah. So I was like, yeah, I'm going to go for a vape. So I went off upstairs. This is where the problem started. Because I didn't tell you where I was going. So, while I was actually in that room, I actually got told, when I come out, that I was fucking loud. And everyone wanted to know who was in that room. And I did not realise how loud I was. But, for anybody... You wasn't that loud, though. Yeah, well, everyone seemed to make out I was extremely fucking loud. But you're used to me, I suppose they're not. But then you're not that loud. In certain situations. Yeah. So, anyway, as I've come out of the room, as Mr. W said, he didn't tell me where he was. And... You went back into the other room. The door was actually open. And I said, where's Mr. W? And they were like, I don't know. I was like, what? And I freaked. I weren't going to let everybody know I was freaking out. But I think Mr. J sensed that. Because he said, are you all right? I said, yeah, I need to find Mr. W. So, with that, I think I went around a circle a little bit where we were. And then I then bumped into you in the corridor. Yeah. And I was like, where the hell were you? Yeah, and I was like, upstairs. But he didn't see a problem with it, did you? No, because at the end of the day, you knew I wouldn't have left. Yes, I get that. But... One, I'm pretty sure you had the locker key and I was only in my boxers. Yes, I understand that. But I think it was because that was a different situation for us. One, we had never had an audio before. Nope. And two, I hadn't been with a single guy. At all. At all, let alone without you. Yeah. So, it was really hard for me to sort of de-stress after that for quite some time. Yeah. But you did get out of it. Yeah, I did. I think I stuck by your side at that point. Yeah. And then we went back into the room and... We weren't in there long. We weren't back in the room long. I think we just sort of... I went back in, we went back in, because I spoke to you about what happened. And I was like, I want to try again. Yeah. So, I went back in with a whole cart of like, let's go. And it just wouldn't happen. Yeah. So, we actually went back upstairs and had another chat. We sort of had a little debrief, the two of us. And then I think others sort of popped up. But all in all, we were in that room... Three hours. Yeah, about two and a half, three hours. And it was hot. It was fucking ridiculous. Literally, everyone was like, must have lost about a stone or two, or more. So, once we'd had our debrief, we then went back down. And that was when everyone was sort of like, finishing up and... Yeah. And leaving the room, spreading out, getting drinks, toileting, like, whatever. And... And we come down and Marvellous Vixen was still sat there, getting himself sorted. Marvellous stag. All right, that's all. Marvellous stag. Long night. So, yeah, he was still getting himself sorted. He was the last one in the room. And then he didn't even know where everyone had gone either, did he, really? No. It turned out they were in the big playroom. Cinema room. Was it the cinema room? Yeah. And we went in there and we sat next to Dee. Yeah. So, yeah, P was playing with the single lady and so was Mr J. And then we realised why there was a bit of a gap. Yeah. So, we were sitting in the firing line, clearly. I don't mind. So, I think at that point, Dee then got a toy out of her bag and sort of went over and she joined in. And it was something we've not actually done before, sort of sat there and watched. Play? Yeah. No, we haven't. No, not literally just sat there and full focussedly. We've been in rooms where several people were playing and you sort of, like, casually look around and things. That was a situation where we were just sitting. Chilling. And chilling and watching them four sort of do their thing. And then I think it wasn't long after that when we decided to sort of... Wrap the night up. Yeah. Because we had another three hour journey home. Yes, we did. Which was a long journey in the middle of the night. Or shall I say early hours in the morning. Was it? Oh, that was a nightmare. So... It's making me tired just thinking about it. We actually sort of all said our goodbyes. I think we were all getting ready to leave at the time. Yeah. Headed down, got back to the car and I was like, right, I'm getting in the car then I'm changing back into my pyjamas. Yep. And that's what I'd done and we headed home. Yeah, and we got halfway up the motorway and I could not keep my eyes open. No. So we stopped and swapped over. Well, that was the plan because we don't drink when we're out. We sort of just stick to soft drinks, bottles of water sort of thing. We both like to stay level headed. And for the purpose of traveling, at least if one gets tired, the other to take over sort of thing. So with that, I started driving and within seconds, Mr. W fell asleep. Yep. And he woke up and was like, right, okay, we're only here. Wake me up when we hit... Stansted? Yeah, might have been. The services that were on the M11 there. So I was like, okay, that's fine. Well, with that, I was like, do you know what? I'm awake. I'm not tired. Let's just carry on driving, let you sleep. So... I was lying because I would have had to be up. Yeah, you would have had to get up once we got home. So with that, I drove all the way home. And then literally five minutes before we got home, Mr. W woke up and was like, oh, we're here. I was like, yeah. He was like, why didn't you wake me? I was like, I actually tried at one point to sort of wake you up because I was getting a bit tired. That was at Stansted. I think that's a bit further. Yeah, I think that's as we come off. And I was like, no, no, it's fine. You know, I was good. I've got a phone. All was good. We actually walked in the door at like 5.45, weren't it? Yeah, that's stupid. Because then... We literally got in. I was like, right, I'm going away and I'm getting in bed. So by the time I had gone away, walked into the bedroom, Mr. W is asleep and the children woke up. I thought, fuck my life. I am clearly not getting no sleep. But we had a bonus side of that. We did have a babysitter here. Yeah. Not that we left the kids in trouble for hours, no. No, no, obviously not. So I sort of stayed with them for a little while until the babysitter woke up and then I sort of went to sleep for a couple of hours. But that night took us more than just a couple of days to debrief. Yeah, we... We spoke for quite some time, sort of working out whether that's the type of thing we'd do again. You know, you've got the whole orgy situation, you've got the whole playing singly. The travel as well. The travel, me playing with a single male, you know, there was just too much to cram into at one point. And normally in our car journeys, we get to talk on the way home and three hours would have been good to sort of nonstop talk. Yeah, debrief completely. But obviously being the time, being the distance, we didn't get that. Which isn't an issue because like I said, we then spent quite a few days, weeks talking about it to see what was what. Yeah, and that's when we then decided that the orgy was good. It chucked us well out of our comfort zone. Yes. I think... I don't think that we would have had that anywhere else and I don't think if it wasn't for the fact that someone we know and that someone we're comfortable with suggested that and was like, come on, let's go, I wouldn't have done it. No, we wouldn't have. I probably would have gone, okay, have fun or I would have made an excuse to go get a drink or go eat or whatever. I wouldn't have even entered the room. So God knows what made me enter the room that day. But I think it was a good thing that we did push ourselves to do it because if we wouldn't have done it, we probably still wouldn't have been there now. Yeah, quite possibly. Even though at time of recording, that has been our only... That has been our only orgy, yeah. Yeah, not taking it off the cards. Just right now hasn't been a right time. Nothing's come up. But something that we had discussed after that, so where I had played singly, we had said, okay, maybe that's something we can do. Well, my thing is because I'm more into women, it was going to be hard for me to find a single male that I would feel comfortable doing that with because it has been discussed before, but I always avoided the situation. Yeah, because that's not what... It's not what we got into the lifestyle for. No. So our dynamic has changed loads from coming into this situation... As looking at... Single females. The poly situation. Yeah, to then just going, okay, we're not going to go down the poly route. We're single female it, to then coupling it, to then... Bringing single males into our dynamic. So that was something that we were going to look into. Yeah, this is where I'm going to put this out. I don't think single males get the appreciation... Good single males get the appreciation that they deserve. No, I totally agree. But I also find that it's very hard, like most couples I know who are in this lifestyle, they are the female or their main priority is females. If it's a couple, they're happy to couple swap. Some may not be, but a single male is very misjudged. So to find the right single male is what was playing on my mind. And this is why I was like, you know, I've had conversations with singles before, but never felt anything more than a conversation. And this is why that next step of trying to find a single male just completely threw me. Oh, yeah, it did. And I think I purposely was like, oh, you know, someone we know, someone we don't know, you know, here or there. Someone we trust. Yeah. But then it was a case of, is Mr. W going to be there? Is he not? And it was just, I don't know, I think the whole situation, I just kept putting off and putting off. But on that note, that's coming in the next few episodes. Why would you discuss that? Because it will be in an episode. And now I'm through off and I don't know what we need to talk about. So Swindon, thoughts. Okay, so thoughts on Swindon. It's a good club. It was still under development. Yeah, so it was a good club. In the end, once I'd actually got in the door, found my bearings, I actually felt all right. I could wander by myself. Yeah. Whereas some clubs, I wouldn't even attempt it. So yeah, Swindon, I'd go back again. Yeah, well, we have said that we will go back to it. I am happy with how things went. It was the whole night was totally unexpected. I think they're going to have to be the night. Like we don't plan what we're going to do anyway. We don't plan on playing with people. So, you know, to not only just find someone to play with, but find several people to play with. Was a big shock. Yeah. But it was brilliant because we did manage to get some really good connections with the people what was involved in that. Yeah. We still speak to a few of them on the daily. Yeah. A couple we don't. Yeah. But we do shoot them a message every now and then. Yeah. So that's our roundup of Swindon swingers. The Southern Invasion. So this is where we're going to call it a night. So if you have any questions or want to leave us any feedback, if you pop over to Instagram, Twitter, Swing Hub and also TikTok. Yeah. So, yeah, guys, let us know how you thought of this one and we will see you all again soon. Bye. Thank you and goodbye.