Pastor Charles - As Is

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The Rock of Ages, the Ancient of Days, the I am that I am The God who was, who is, and who is to come Allah, God of Heaven, Allah of the Earth The Lord will worship you, will honor you The artist of footstool, the heavens you sit upon Bigger than the biggest, greater than the greatest You never age, you never grow old You are the all-knowing, the all-wisdom and the giver of life You were not given birth to but You gave birth to everything You were not created but You created all things How marvelous are You Lord, how powerful are You When I think of the goodness of Jesus How marvelous are You Lord, how powerful are You When I think of the goodness of Jesus How marvelous are You Lord, how powerful are You Who is my Sheik, and who is His Lord Because He lives, I can say tomorrow Because He lives, all fear is gone Because I know, He owns my future My life is one, I live in joy because He lives Thank you Father Lord Minister through me this precious morning Minister to your children in your own special way Let my word, your word through me be sweet in their ears In the mighty name of Jesus As they hear it, let it nourish their soul Let your wisdom flow through your word Let your power flow through your word Let healing and deliverance take place through your word Because your word is powerful, your word remains forever Thank you Father Lord For it's your word that heals me It's your word that delivers It's your word, mighty word, it's your word Your word heals, your word delivers They are here because of your word today Father let them hear you Not me, let them hear you For anyone that hears you can never remain the same Let them hear you through the word today Give us wisdom, give us knowledge, give us understanding Let my heart be open to receive Let my ear hear, let my heart discern And let my tongue minister your true word today Thank you Holy Spirit I see what is going on in the realm of the Spirit Yes, thank you Holy Spirit Open their heart of understanding That they will see marvelous things in your word today In Jesus mighty name we pray And the church say, Amen So let the church say, Amen Hallelujah Let the church say, Amen God has spoken Let the church say, Amen Please be seated in praise of the Lord One more time we congratulate Mr. and Mrs. Doby Hallelujah God bless this union I also want to congratulate Evangelist Fashigbe Celebrating your birthday yesterday More life, more grace In the mighty name of Jesus Thank you Holy Spirit If you are online with us this morning You remember that my message this morning That 6am prayer meeting Was basically on marriage Because yesterday was not time enough for me To pour out what the Lord has laid on my heart For the couples And for every one of us So I will pour it out this morning And the title of my message is As is As is As is Somebody say as is If you have sold car before You know what they call as is Praise the Lord If you have bought something on Craigslist before You know as is Are you getting the message now? Just by the tattoo you know where I am going to As is Doby say as is Zizi say as is Not Aziz, Aziz is a Muslim name It sounds like Aziz but it is not Aziz It is as is What you buy is what you buy What you see is what you see Every other thing may be a surprise Don't be surprised What you want is as is You know they say marriage is a black market But I don't want to say it is a black market I want to say marriage is as is Hallelujah One thing about the as is is that When you go, you have a little Even if you go ahead of days To go and look at the car that you want to buy You look around You look at the engine, everything It sounds like everything is good You bring out the oil nozzle You check the oil looks clean You start it If you are not careful you will not hear the clink clink sound inside the engine That is a knock engine, you may not know Praise the Lord And it is 50-50 After you buy it, it may cost you nothing You may just have hit jackpot Praise the Lord Most of the time the reason why they say as is Is not because something is literally wrong with the car Or the product It is because they don't want to deal with it anymore They don't want to bring it back to them That is the main message there You can't bring it back It is as is You get it? You can't come tomorrow and say He is this, she is this I am going to divorce No, as is Praise the Lord As is started from the Garden of Eden Hallelujah When I read that Genesis You will agree with me That when Eve ate the apple And he called Adam Come and take it What would have happened If Adam said no, I am not eating this apple with you He would have violated the principle of marriage That states Man shall leave his father and mother And claim with his wife And they shall become one flesh They become one flesh If eating it is Adam eating it Technically All he needs to do is to put it in his mouth But he has already eaten it His flesh has eaten it If we have to go by that spiritual principle Is somebody getting it? So for him not to eat it He would have violated The bond that God has created In the realm of the spirit between them Even though he knew What he was doing was wrong You know the devil didn't have to convince him He didn't Have you eaten it? Have you eaten it? Do you know what is going on in his head? This man They don't even know what God will do So she is going to die Because God said The day you eat it, you will die So if she dies Adam knows that God that gave him Eve Could create another Eve for him This is where bonding comes in When you are tied with someone In the ministry And the institution of marriage It is a spiritual bonding Maybe you have not heard of this dimension before Me too, I have not heard of this I am just speaking, praise the Lord All you need to do is Say As is So he had to So that That pledge For better, for worse For poorer, for richer And with you Adam Practised it He wouldn't let the wife To fall in love You die, I die You go, I go If eating it, why did you eat it? Remember, from the day you eat it You will surely die But he wouldn't want The wife to die alone Hallelujah And he took it And ate it But luckily They didn't die immediately They didn't die spiritually They were disconnected He knew that God already said it And that was the first time They would ever hear God So maybe God is going to change their mind They don't know, maybe he is going to feel compassion They don't know what is going to come of it But they have already done it But immediately their eyes were opened According to the scriptures And everything Changed forever Hallelujah Everything changed forever My message here From this point is that Marriage is spiritual It's spiritual The reason why it fails In our generation because We have taken it to be Ordinary To be physical To be carnal It's a covenant It must be It must be taken serious Hollywood don't determine it American constitution cannot rewrite it They may perverse it It's still the same Hallelujah somebody What you and I need to look for Is This God that created this institute We go back And continue to teach us Because 90% of people in marriage Are not happy It is your responsibility To be determined I want to be happy And what is it going to take me to be happy Hallelujah somebody I think even in the church We have not Spiritualized marriage enough When we teach about marriage We bring all the Psychological principles Filio Whatever All those things that is created Love is love All those definitions Were created Love is love Hallelujah And God is love And one love is filio Is emotional One is this You know all those names they call them I don't know those names I don't want to know Love is love Hallelujah You waste your time studying filio Memorizing filio You forget the real love itself Because you just created all those distractions Love is love And God is love Hallelujah somebody The church I believe church has not done enough To spiritualize marriage We've canalized marriage We've taken it from the realm Making people to understand Every day and every time It's a convenance Every word you spoke In the presence of the Lord Shall be used and held against you If you violate it Hallelujah So we leave that spiritual aspect of it And focus on the canal aspect of it And now we handle it with no fear No tremble The people of the ages The reason why they were faithful in their marriage Was because they were afraid They knew it was a convenance Hallelujah somebody They handle marriage With the fear of the Lord Fathers Mothers They handle marriage with the fear of the Lord Even those generations that permit polygamy You dare not treat the woman Anyhow because you have multiple of them It should be held against you Hallelujah somebody Is somebody getting what I'm saying The only time When 1 plus 1 is equal to 1 Hallelujah But remember the scripture also says There will be a time when 1 plus 10 Is equal to 1 Scripture said it There will be a time When 1 plus 10 Is equal to 1 And the scripture cannot be broken That time will come And it's only here now It may not be you It may not be me But it's happening in some places Where 10 women will come Say 1 man please let me bear your name That is 10 plus 1 If I will say 1 shall come together He said 2 shall become together And they shall become 1 So I say 1 plus 1 is equal to 1 The scripture also says that 1 plus 10 shall be 1 at a time Because when 10 come to you They want to be 1 with you They see whatever is going to happen But that is not the message today The message is the fact that Let's treat marriage With the fear of God In John chapter number 2 The first miracle of Jesus Christ We call it the wedding at Cana That was the first miracle of Jesus That was recorded in the scripture But it's not the first miracle per se Because what the mother said in that chapter Will tell you that He has been doing some things That made the mother to know that I have a peculiar child Hallelujah So let's not deceive ourselves Because the bible didn't mention it Even Luke said it somewhere in chapter 20 If everything that Jesus Christ did Were to be written The bible will not contain it Even the world will not contain it Hallelujah somebody There was 18 years missing It just showed up in 33 Like we are acting a movie What happened to that scene 18 years scenario we are missing Do you know what happened in those 18 years Hallelujah So from 12 years Plus 2 and 3 and half years Of ministry That is 15 years Hallelujah So what is missing in his ministry Is more than what we heard about him It's loaded Do you agree with me Praise the lord In that chapter number 2 1 to 12 Let me read it quickly John chapter number 2 Hallelujah On the third day There was a wedding in Cana Of Galilee And the mother of Jesus was there Now both Jesus and his disciples Were invited to the wedding And when they ran out of wine The mother of Jesus said to him They have no wine Jesus said to her Woman What does your concern Have to do with me My hour has not yet come They spoke to each other In a coded language Mother going to his son They have no wine This is not inside the house This is a public place Could he have been giving them wine Before when they were at home When visitors come there is no wine in the house He could have been doing some things For the mother to be confident enough Can you go to your son and say My son Our account is dry My sister What's her name Tell Angela That Your account needs more money Angela Transfer money to your mother's account Because you have not been transferring money In the account before You have been taking from that account Praise the living Jesus We are talking of experience now Jesus Must have been doing some things That gave that woman faith He didn't have to say That thing you did at home that day Come and do it again They don't have wine What has my concern got to do with you You understand that scenario there The mother walk away And told the rest of the people That place is deep Say whatever he says Do Why would she be so confident to do whatever He knew that he will do it He has never said no To his mom before Somebody said take care of your mother She is so confident She just left there Whatever he says do it He sound as if he was not going to do it He sound to let the mother But you know this is not yet my time My time has not come I might have been doing it at home one way or the other To entertain you guys But it's not for the public yet But nonetheless Honor thy father and thy mother That your days may be long On the earth He honored the mom The mom just walk away They say the mother Knows their child more than anybody It's supposed to be so If you pay attention to your child You will know your child than anybody Whatever he says do But that's not the message right now The message is that he went ahead and produced the wine He gave them water He didn't pray on it He didn't put his finger on it He just said go and serve it And as they went to serve it The chairman of the ceremony You don't serve people fake When their appetite is too strong You give them the best So they will rate your wedding As one of the best wedding The way you see that they are drunk They are still looking for more You give them the fake Praise the lord Praise the lord Praise the lord So the chairman said Who does this You have given us the best The wedding is almost over Now the message here is this Because Jesus was present In that wedding See let's be sincere If we allow the maker of wedding To be in the wedding It will not grow sour The older The longer it gets It gets better Praise the lord That's the revelation there That's bringing the wine from Jesus Because wine is for celebration Which means that You know at the beginning of many marriages They celebrate unless it's tolerance Everybody just tolerates everybody Some are like roommates They don't look at each other everyday No intimacy, no nothing Granded marriage That's what is existing out there today Why? Because We have not allowed The creator of marriage The creator of that institution To genuinely, sincerely With reverence Carry out The performance of the marriage When You say whatever you do Do as unto Christ Even at your local job Where they are paying you salary You must work as if you are in the church You must work as if you are working for Jesus Christ You are working for your own paycheck But handle it with integrity So that they can see Christ in you Not to talk of marriage in itself You have to marry as if you are married to Jesus Praise the lord So that tells you and I That even though you marry as is You don't know what you marry If every one of us In our marriages Can reverence God Sincerely and genuinely Hallelujah What is my role in this marriage? Biblically What is God expecting of me In this marriage As a woman What is my expectation in this marriage As a man As a husband Are you such Are you sit down in the school Of marriage as we are teaching it today Are you genuinely make up your mind And come to understand that Marriage is more complicated than the surgery The experience you learn for 7 years Or 12 years to become a surgical doctor Where you can pierce people Open them, put them back and they will still be alive Marriage is more complicated than that Hallelujah So if you use You see in 7 years you can become a surgeon 100 years I mean your 30 years of marriage You have not perfected it yet Are you getting it You are still on trial and error That is how complicated it is But it shouldn't be It is simple Our fathers in the bible It was simple for them, why? Because the mothers know their role The fathers they know their role Hallelujah somebody The things that cause chaos In the marriage these days Things cause chaos in those days When modernism kick in It push back the marriage Hallelujah And that does not see Majority of the power we are fighting for In marriage these days They were not absent in those days They were just by structure A woman Program 31 Highly potential Producing and providing for her family That is the woman that fulfilled purpose So marriage does not mean That you will not fulfill purpose But if you read that chapter very well You will see how honorable she was Or she is to her husband Hallelujah And how the husband is respected Out there because of her That woman you have She is different among all women Because the woman is the trophy of the man Trophy They respect you because of your wife Hallelujah somebody It is a pride So no man should be afraid For a woman achieving It is not a new thing under the sun 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communicating poorly So we must all be a student of communication Hallelujah Is this what you are meaning? Is this what you are saying? Ask again Is this what you mean? Because what happens is that we say the right thing in an angry tone And if anger jam anger Fire will ignite Hallelujah So poor communication Poor communication affects marriage So that is a lecture on its own on communication And the Bible said something This Bible is loaded especially Proverbs Solomon said something He said a gentle answer quenches the wrath So you are bringing me good communication If you bring it to me with shoulder up, head up No matter how nice it is I will not take it Praise the Lord I will not take it And the same thing If you communicate to your spouse as if she is your slave Even priests We don't talk anyhow to our maid Our housemaid Driver, chauffeur, cook We don't talk to them the way they talk to people in Nigeria Hallelujah My friend went home and was dealing with his driver nicely The guy is there Why are you dealing with this guy He said no We don't treat people differently because of their level We are equal Hallelujah They hated it Nigerian big men too egocentric Hallelujah That is why they tried to put barriers The one that started us to be different Keep crushing poor down so that they will remain on top They are coming down in the name of Jesus I am not talking of the genuine ones The ones that determined that a poor man will not rise Praise the Lord So what I am saying Not to talk of your flesh We talk to one another I say I will leave devil out of this When problems want to start The day there is going to be a problem As you wake up that day You know there is going to be a problem If you are very sensitive If you know there is going to be a fight in the house You will know when you wake up in the morning Because your good morning will sound like good evening Somebody can say I didn't hear you greet me But you know you greeted Praise the Lord That day you know Dress up and quickly Praise the Lord Even if you don't have work to do By the time you go down Everything will have come down Wisdom is profitable Because sometimes It doesn't take big problem for problem to erupt Hallelujah Something minor We have to just The Bible is so accurate Understand each other You are going to spend time in understanding each other Understanding each other There is goodness in all of us And there is the other side in all of us The better we understand each other The better It is not my responsibility to keep understanding you You must understand me too Understand me I am not going to be nice all the time Hallelujah Somebody So if you know the day I am not nice Pamper me now Praise the Lord Somebody So even if you pamper them too much They will not be nice every time I used to pamper them This life is too complicated As soon as you begin to do one thing It becomes a continuous habit It is like when I sleep this way I will sleep this way No it should not be that way Praise the Lord That is deception There should not be deception There should be understanding Knowledge is sweet But we have to work it out Two are always better than one So before two people come And say I do It is not an easy thing That is why many guys are running for that commitment I don't know if there is anybody running for that commitment Where are the guys? Guys are running for that commitment Because it is not easy Praise the Lord It is not easy It is not easy Because as soon as you say I do It is like something just changed The thing that used to be nice before When there is no quarrel Now you belong to me I belong to you It is like Let us take it easy now Let it be simple as it used to be Praise the Lord Praise the Lord somebody Just keep that friendship flowing We just signed a document Yes we took a vow But that is how you put divorce After marriage They have been friends for many years Nothing happened The day they signed out It is like nothing happened You cannot be afraid of signing that agreement Praise the Lord somebody I am not making any revelation Let me read it so we can go Praise the Lord somebody Poor communication Hallelujah Financial problem Financial problem You know financial problem is the fact that Maybe somebody is spending too much Or somebody is not making enough That can trigger a situation That too can be taken care of Hallelujah If you understand everybody's spending ability If somebody always comes home everyday With two two bags From the family account And those things End up in the storage Without being used Hallelujah Then you have to apply some wisdom And don't let it cause fight Just apply wisdom Praise the Lord somebody God will teach you You see when they say that You must keep the same bank account Two of you are working on the same frequency Of understanding If the frequency is different Somebody know how to enjoy the money And somebody know how to work for the money Separate enjoyment Benefit And leave family Otherwise Two of you will be homeless That will not be your question in Jesus name This is the responsibility of the man or the woman This is the responsibility of the man or the woman I know you two are a generous woman You know This lady is generous She is making more money And this time the old man cough He said what is wrong with you And she wanted to start a business And they have used all the money She said why are you complaining You yourself Hallelujah He said you will whine and whine Until I do that thing And I will teach you now how to manage it So it is not only the woman that know how to spend Some men know how to spend Hallelujah somebody He said pastor each time we go out He said lets go to 5 star hotel This hotel is 5 star He said pastor My tire was down one day I called him and said I found somebody they are coming He said pastor He said pastor Calm down Praise the lord Marriage is interesting Hallelujah So financial capacity must be balanced This is number one thing that destroy marriage Finances Finances You must deal with it Some things you don't deal with You don't deal with some things in the marriage You deal with it This is number one entry to the marriage One of the things we make is that We just get carried away with friendship Happiness Once you see that relationship is getting closer to marriage Discuss everything I was watching One pastor one time Many years ago He said 100 things two of you must ask each other 100 things You must ask each other before marriage That is an examination Up to credit Up to credit You must know Because there are some dead credit Some credit can be resurrected Some They are dead So if you are particular about that If you want to treat that as a preference Over the love you have for that person Then you have to know about it And that is the beginning of transparency That should be transparency You get what I am saying You need to know the flaws of that person You need to know the person's baggage The person needs to know your baggage If all you want to focus is this back And front and back You will miss it Is somebody getting it? Finances Financial problem with destroying marriage Infidelity and trust issues That one is baba Kurukere is not good Is not good Is not Christian like The only time divorce is approved The only time divorce is approved in the bible Is infidelity The husband may not catch you The wife may not catch you But if it happens It has been done in the spiritual realm Divorce has taken place in the realm of the spirit That is the only one condition The woman can be wicked The man can be anyhow You know not abusive per se To the point of your life being endangered That is a no no Another no no is infidelity Hallelujah God does not permit it As a matter of fact That is the only ground Biblical ground For two people to go apart Because covenant has been broken Very serious And I know it can lead to hell fire And I know it can lead to hell fire We don't preach it that way, right? If I would say If there is no adultery we see heaven I didn't write it there Google it, it will bring it up I don't give you the scripture If there is no adultery we see heaven Can you see forgiveness? Yes, because of the grace of the blood of Jesus But before Jesus Christ came There was no forgiveness for adultery He is dead That is why they were going to stone that woman to death When Jesus Christ delivered her Because Jesus Christ delivered her Tells you at night that There is forgiveness and there is Redemption for anyone that falls in it But in those days Under the law No grace If it comes to the knowledge The marriage is breaking up I will share this morning on the prayer line That some culture in Africa They are so strong And I said it that In my mother's village If a woman does it A snake will come out from nowhere And round the woman up like this Snake literally They know that you have done something Maybe you did it in secret When a snake, you are sitting in the community Everybody is sitting, you are eating And a snake just came up They know something has happened Hallelujah Some, the man will just be sick He will barely If you don't confess He may die That is how it used to be in Bible days So You don't want to stay away Or you want to marry somebody Go and find out how they do in their family So family don't play That's why some ladies will tell you This family in Africa, we can't marry from there They are too strict When it comes to relationship You go and physically kiss somebody in your office Your mouth will swell up Praise the Lord Somebody Am I scaring you today Somebody shout hallelujah Number three Infidelity and trust, it destroys marriage And if it does not destroy the marriage It destroys heaven Because you may be able to do it Like I won't mention the person's name online Now he is going, he is a superstar Everybody knows him That one now is 200 million they are going to share So people don't care We are talking of biblical marriage right here Praise the Lord somebody Forget about what money they will share Forget about what money they will share when they divorce For a Christian It can destroy heaven You can lose heaven What shall it profit the man Again the whole world and lose His sponsor Am I scaring you today Sometimes we need it The church has become too We too Water down gospel is too much We should wash water down And majority are going to hell Because of the water down gospel Hallelujah I have never seen anybody That go to heaven and luckily they send that person back And they tell you that I was in the hell fire But Jesus Christ came and pulled me there and took me to heaven They always come back and give us revelation Some say it is because of the way they dress They just say it is because of the way you dress The way you used to dress That is why we are putting you in hell Do you hear that in the gospel these days No No Some say it is because Anger He did not forgive his wife He died You know that guy's story online for many years He had an accident and they took him to hell fire He is a pastor Straight to hell fire He begged and begged and they returned him For him to tell us His anger, unforgiveness Not just the anger, the unforgiveness that made him They were taking him to hell fire When the grace teacher comes to teach us They say grace has covered everything I don't see anybody That die and come back and say By grace I saw heaven Hallelujah Why is the experience they are bringing From heaven is contrary to the experience of our teaching People that teach it have not been to heaven The people that went to heaven Come back either by surgery or by mistake Or something, they were unconscious If they bring us those experiences It is still gospel It is still gospel It is not only the one we read from the bible And preach It doesn't take away grace But let's not pamper grace as if it is a license to sin Hallelujah Somebody God does not require us anything anymore Be afraid He said How did the scripture say He said Carry out your salvation with fear and tremble Walk it out Walk it out And I explained that walk out to you two weeks ago It doesn't mean that you are saving yourself It is just that you are saved But we must see the evidence of salvation in you Through your walks Hallelujah Somebody I say I am a pastor You expect me that I am saved automatically Now every church you meet me there Every night club you meet me there Am I walking out my salvation No, I am walking out calamity Hallelujah Does that make any sense now So does anybody cannot go around and say we are saved And they are acting like they are in the world It is two different things Somebody shout hallelujah I will give you the remaining point later Power stroke Lack of intimacy Infidelity Unmet expectations Hallelujah The unrealistic expectations The bible say hope defies When you are hopeful Maybe the agenda was not there before The agenda suddenly came Then you are hopeful That you want to achieve this Now because you have children You can't go to that school and achieve that thing anymore Some people it bring depression to them Because they didn't bargain that They were going to be stuck with that child We saw a lady in Nigeria that threw her baby in the water She said she was complaining That everything she wanted to do She couldn't do because of the baby This is manslaughter In America you are in jail right now You threw a baby in the water Is it a Holy ghost pregnancy How did you get pregnant When you were doing it Did you expect pregnancy Hallelujah Those excuses does not make any sense She literally threw the baby in the water And somebody jumped into the water To go salvage that baby We saw the video went viral Because She said she could not achieve anything She could not do anything with her life anymore Carry the baby to Motherless They will take the baby from you Praise the lord somebody Some people say after they marry They couldn't do anything again because of their marriage Hallelujah You must think about all those things Because baby will take your time It will take part of your life So you could not be intimate again It turned their life upside down It's a sacrifice No blessing God has given to us that you will not pay a price for Praise the living Jesus Lack of intimacy And emotions When that one declines, marriage is over Let's leave it alone Power struggle You know what that means Difference in value and beliefs Stress And external pressure Lack of quality time External support We kill the marriage Hallelujah Poor conflict resolution When you don't have a plan When there is a conflict How do we resolve it And we stick to that plan Because conflict will come We must have a plan on how to resolve it On this note I close my message today I know I can't explain everything Let us rise up on our feet Thank you for your time Thank you Jesus We worship you Lord We honor you Be exalted, be magnified Believe that Believe that Above all of the earth We lay our crown And worship you We lay our crown And worship you And worship you And worship you And worship you Father we thank you For the time we spend in your presence today We thank you Lord For your word today We worship you Lord We give you all the glory Be exalted, be magnified Thank you Jesus Father let the word I go for today Help us Let's not be a talker only Help us to be a doer Amen Amen Let's not just be a hearer Help us to be a doer We can preach and preach and preach It is in the doing that the result will come We can hear and hear Even take note It is in the doing that the result will come I pray for you today You will do what you have heard The grace to do What you have learned today The God we grant it unto you Even if you are single You need to understand that You are about to go into an institution That is not easy to handle That you may put time And your mind to study in it That you may come out happy in it Receive that grace in the name of Jesus Because your Mary I say I do Is not a guarantee of happiness You must work out your joy and happiness You must be conscious You must be determined to be happy In your marriage You will see happiness Receive that grace today in the name of Jesus Like I said this morning Whether you are divorced or single Don't give up Don't give up There is still life ahead of you The Bible says it is not good for a man to be alone Hallelujah You will not die in loneliness in Jesus name God will bring you your own help mates That will understand you in the name of Jesus A good woman will come to your side A good man will come by your side In the mighty name of Jesus The scripture says A man can leave Father and mother can leave wealth For the children But a good wife Is from the Lord May we all be good to one another In the name of Jesus Father we thank you We worship you Lord In Jesus mighty name Amen Let's shout the grace together May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ The love of God And the sweet fellowship of the Holy Spirit Be with us now And forever more Amen Surely God's goodness and mercy shall follow us All the days of our life And we shall dwell in the house of the Lord Forever and ever Amen May the Lord bless you and may the Lord keep you Amen May the Lord make his face to shine over you And be gracious unto you Only if you are saying Amen Don't you believe in that decree May the Lord Pour his countenance upon us And give us peace You will know peace As you enter this new week You will be blessed You will be protected Because the word of the Lord says so Your children, your family, siblings Far and near shall be protected In the name of Jesus You are celebrating and dancing today You will not cry tomorrow In the name of Jesus The thing that is making you happy today Will not bring sorrow tomorrow In the mighty name of Jesus I pray that the dew of heaven Will fall upon you The dew of heaven will rain on you right now That as you enter into this new week New doors will open for you New opportunity will show up The word that belongs to you You will not miss it In the mighty name of Jesus Thank you Holy Spirit The Bible says we shall not die but live To declare the works of the Lord You say though you walk through the valley of shadow There you will fear no evil Because the Lord is with you His road and his staff will comfort you He will prepare a safe place for your enemy He will anoint your head with oil I tell you today in the name of Jesus Your cup shall overflow In the mighty name of Jesus Those of you that are in expectation of one thing From the government I decree against every bad news In the name of Jesus It shall be good news You will receive a good letter Good news will show up In the name of Jesus The Bible says the act of the lost and the fullness thereof This land that God has given it to you Your staff is on it May the Lord possess this land for you In the mighty name of Jesus Immigration will favor you The government will favor you There shall be a change of law Change of policy That will favor you In the mighty name of Jesus The Bible says the heart of kings in the hand of the Lord And like the river it turns it It will turn them to favor you In the name of Jesus Thank you Holy Spirit In Jesus mighty name We pray In the mighty name of the Lord Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah