interview with Carolynn Van Lydegraf Chapter 17 supporting families across generations

The main idea of the conversation is about the role of grandparents in modern families. They discuss how the increasing lifespan and the fact that many people still have living grandparents into their 30s changes the dynamic. They also talk about the importance of setting boundaries and having good relationships between parents and grandparents. The conversation highlights the benefits of being a grandparent, such as forming a strong bond with grandchildren, but also mentions potential drawbacks, such as relying too much on grandparents for childcare. The conversation ends with the idea that being a grandparent is a fun and rewarding role. Hi. This is Jenny Sparks, and I'm here on the seventh installment of Successful Marriages and Families Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives by Alan J. Hawkins, David C. Dollaheit, and Thomas W. Drape. I'll be taking questions from that book, and I'm here today with my very good friend, Carolyn Van Lydegraaf. Hello. It's good to be here. I'll be asking her some questions about grandparenting, and there we go. Since we are living longer, and percentages of people have at least one grandparent still living into their 30s, so when we're 30 and on, we still have at least one grandparent, which is incredible to me, because I lost my last one when I was like 12. How do you think this affects the grandparent's role, or do you? I think it does. I think when you have younger grandchildren, you're more, at least in my situation, I only have one grandchild, and she's going to be nine this year, and so I don't have the experience of having older, but I look at what my mother's going through. She's 90, and she has not only grandchildren in their 40s, but great-grandchildren who are getting married, and so I think if you have grandchildren in their 30s, the role changes. They're almost more of a caregiver at that point to their grandparents, instead of the grandparent being a caregiver to them, so I think it's interesting, and you have to be a little bit more lenient as the grandparents get older, because they do kind of revert back to children. You kind of have to treat them as a child, as their memories go, and they're not able to do as many things, so I think it does change. I find, too, all of my kids, all their grandparents are still alive, and Katie being the youngest at almost 19, and they have other great-grandchildren that are going to school, and it's just ... Yeah, it's amazing how ... Because I didn't, like you, I had one grandmother, my mother's mother, and she lived up in Canada, and I never saw her, so I never had that influence of grandparents in my life, so ... Yeah, it's kind of a neat thing that we have, and I think as the world grows and changes and gets a little bit more difficult, I think the influence of grandparents and stuff is going to be a good one. Do you feel there is a fine line you need to walk between parenting and grandparenting? I think it all comes down to having good relationships, good, healthy relationships and boundaries. I think if you have a good relationship with your kids, you're going to have ... It's easier to be a grandparent, I think, if there's some, maybe, unhealthy relationships, there could be difficulties, and we've decided when we only have the one grandchild again, so we're not expert by any means, but it's been a little bit difficult in the fact that my son went through a divorce, so dealing with his ex, we had to be a little bit more careful and it's still difficult dealing with her other family, but when my son has her, it's just boundaries. He trusts us with her, and we trust her with him, and I think it's more ... I don't feel like there's a fine line, I think there's respect there, and we're able to just have fun and have her whenever we want to see her, so I think, yeah, no, I don't ... That's what I think the key is, respect. Respect and know the boundaries. It's like, I would love to have her over all the time, but I know that's not good for her. She needs to be around her parents, too, so I think just making sure that you're all on the same page, and you respect, and when he comes back and says, you know what, I would really appreciate if you didn't do this or you did do this, to respect that. Absolutely. That's one of the things that with ... Well, my grandchild is only seven months, but that's one of the things that I've tried to reassure my son and my daughter-in-law, is that whatever it is they want, regardless of how I raise my children, it's their child, and I will do and respect what they want, and I feel that then leads to them having trust. Well, and the bond, and you have that stronger bond with them, and that relationship grows. Because we raised our kids, what, 20, 30 years ago. Things have changed. Yeah, and they come up with new stuff, just like when they did, and I remember when my oldest was born, it was like, oh, they sleep on their sides, and then, no, they sleep on their back. And when I was a kid, it was, you sleep on your stomach, you know? Yeah, yeah. And so, whatever we might have thought was great, some things they don't think is so great right now. Right. Well, and I think it actually helps the kids when there's that consistency, too. Yeah. When it's the same at the grandparents and at the parents, when the rules are the same. Yeah. I think that helps the child, too. Yeah. One of the things I do, too, is when I watch her, I will send videos or pictures every now and then, just so they know she's alive and happy and following the routine. Right. And I'm like, I wish we had cell phones when I had little babies and they were being watched. As a grandparent, and you help with your grandchild's care, do you feel there are some benefits? And what is any of those drawbacks, possibly? Well, I think there's several benefits. We had the privilege of, when my son went through his divorce, of having them live with us for five years. Oh, wow. And getting to know your grandchild on that personal level, not just for visits once in a while to babysit or tend them once in a while, but to live with them was such a blessing. Yeah. That was a privilege to us to really get to know her and what she liked. So, yeah, I think there's many benefits of taking care of your grandkids. And there's some drawbacks, too. You know, there's, I think it's, well, in my case, not so many drawbacks, but it was more, you know, I'm not trying to think of any. I'm sure there would be in other situations. But in ours, it was more, maybe the one drawback I would think of is our son relied on us too much. Oh, yeah. You know, to take care of her instead of, you know, because he was dealing with his own things. Yeah. That would be the only drawback I could think of. I can see that happening. I know. Like, when my twins were born, we lived with my parents for a little bit because Bowdoin was just diagnosed with autism. He was two. Oh. And I had twins. And Robert was working two jobs. Wow. And so, we lived with him for about a year and a half. And my mom helped tremendously amount and really get attached to my kids. And so, when we decided to move to Idaho, that was another very difficult thing because, you know, she helped with the babies from the time they were babies. And then we moved here, and it was really difficult for her, and it was really difficult for my kids because they were missing my parents. And it was difficult for me because, you know, you feel somewhat responsible for that. Right. And I don't think it's a drawback because they still, even though it was when they were little, have a very good relationship with them. Yeah. I think that's so important to have that bond. Yeah. I love my grandparents. And I felt it was – and I knew because I loved them that I could also love my mother. So, I want – I don't know. I know sometimes some parents may be afraid that their kids won't love them as much because grandma's more fun. Right. Well, yeah. Grandma is more fun. That's what it's supposed to be. Yeah. That's what it's supposed to be. But they'll still, you know, go to you. Right. 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