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The podcast discussion involves a group of teenagers talking about different topics such as teenage pregnancy, relationships, fake friends, and inappropriate behavior between students and teachers. They express their opinions and experiences on these subjects. They also discuss rumors and how they feel about them. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for boundaries, communication, and minding one's own business. all right we're gonna go ahead and start this is Wesley house youth podcast and we're gonna go around the table everybody say your name and your age Oh Martin and I'm 13 we're shy and I'm 14 my name is Kostas and I'm 13. My name is Kaitlyn and I'm 15. My name is Marjory and I'm 12. Alright so we're gonna start this podcast basically what we left off on we left off on relationships and things like that now actually I'm gonna let you start up so the topic that I wanted to talk about today was like kids having kids like how kids be at a young age and they still be making babies I'm gonna go I'm gonna go around the table since he asked I'm gonna start over there all right so I mean how do y'all feel how do y'all feel about what he just said just kids he said kids having kids so I'm assuming that you're talking about someone your age right so early teens 12 13 14 15 even 16 you know so how do you feel about that again we got it we got to put away our phones we got to put away our phones basically what he said is children having children so basically to teens you guys age having the child how do you how do you feel about this I feel like I feel like they to grow up this way I think they shouldn't be having no let's be uh let's be quiet with the uh I guess they don't matter I guess I'm at it still mark so so you you feel like they should get rid of the child if they if you have a child at a young age you know and what's the reason why you know what's the reason why so based off of what your mother said so what you're saying is you wouldn't be able to or your mom thinks you wouldn't be able to take care of the child cuz you have a you don't have a job and you don't have you basically still in school a future you know things like that okay okay yeah they shouldn't be doing that especially if you don't especially if you don't yeah that but the protection thing I have another I have another topic to speak on I feel like they shouldn't be out there being wrong because there's not the age to do that relax relax we're not putting anybody business out again so I mean how many have more friends with girlfriends or just about to raise their hands you know boyfriend girlfriend so pretty much everybody I know how y'all know what Reggie got you know why y'all hating on my man I know what Reggie got so I mean so let so let so we already kind of talked about the reason why someone somebody you're age should have a boyfriend a girlfriend or with it what it is but you know not to get too detailed what type of activities do y'all really do make sure they clean though because if they clean you don't want to kiss no stinky breath girl or boy you said the way we get them boys thank you bro hey that's not the question bro they can hear you I don't be doing nothing I didn't be talking I'd be I'd be walking around we don't be doing business but what we be doing something that we like seriously we can't do we can't say people names and stuff like that that's straight away from telling each other business but no I'll be doing none of that I'd be standing in the house or we'd be on the phone that's it I'll be going to the park they was trying to they was trying to clown you what type of thing activities you do with your girl you just talking on phone and stuff like that okay all right I get it I get it what type of activities you and your guy be getting into we be on the phone and we meet outside of school and stuff like that so just just going back to the the kissing and hugging somebody said kissing and hugging and stuff like what do you think they usually lead to like what what did that lead to the kissing and hugging stuff like that anybody usually lead to I feel like with me you don't leave for nothing cuz I said boundaries I said I'm dead I don't want to you know do this so I feel like it all leads to nothing but people want to be affectionate and they just want to do yeah I got a focus focus and get serious about the conversation all right so um so we still we still on relationship let's let's not switch the topic all right cuz I think I think God know not to get to that step and like he said other things can happen you know um condom or not you can still get pregnant still get STDs and STIs and stuff like that so it happens if you're a lot of times at a young age you don't you don't know too much that's out there you know what I mean so you know I don't think it's too many people are actually really teaching about the different diseases or the what and what not to do because they don't really expect you to actually get into those activities you know so um but switching the topic what is the topic that you have if you I have a topic but we can wait for that um the topic that I want to discuss is fake friends if you know your friend talking to someone why do you go and talk to that person um yeah yeah yeah that's what I want to know are you talking about real relationships right so if you're if you're in a relationship with someone and then you have a friend that knows you in the relationship you send your friend start to have a conversation with the person I feel like if you're my friend and you know that person's person why you go and try to be all friendly and flirty with them and then go around telling other people the stuff that you did with somebody and that's what you know cuz you think you here's my thing if y'all don't know something to if y'all have the actual evidence how would y'all know so let me add what will be the type of evidence so you're saying that you have photos of a person talking I want to I want to why does that have anything to do with you but why do I have to do with you though I hate when you got a friend like a boy how you got like a friend it's a boy by your cousin want to go talk to their boy how do you feel about I feel like people just need to talk like like like spreading rumors because if it's the rumors not even true so if you just if you just just stop talking if it's not true man you just doing stuff and this is this is pretty much what happens in school right a lot of different let me answer so I'm gonna ask the girls if someone really guys are spreading as well they be spreading rumors as well we can't just put it on we can't just put it on the girls though so how would y'all feel if somebody was spread even if it's true or not how much I feel if somebody's spreading a rumor about you um I feel that I won't clear up nothing cuz there's just gonna make him wanna say more stuff about me so I won't clear up nothing if it get outrageous and of course I'm glad oh wait if it's something like oh you talk to this person I'm not clearing it up cuz they're just gonna make a thing oh yeah but if it get outrageous when I do I I got somebody pregnant I'm saying that's that's how outrageous the rumors get so I'm not clearing nothing up okay I would feel like it's fighting time cuz that actually did happen to me before y'all I was like it's fighting time but then when I meet them it's talking time it's like okay that's how I feel I don't care if it's true or not so you're saying do you feel that real quick do you do you feel that people should just mind their own business so so that so Richard which I'm talking about is basically what I was saying earlier when it when it come to this guy like maybe we should all like kind of mind our own business I so I want to switch topic I feel like this this is the thing that's going on all too often now um this particular thing so I'm gonna I'm gonna start it off with a story cuz when I was younger I used to have you know these these little crushes on you know you said cramps these little crushes on you know teachers and stuff like that you know I mean it wasn't a way away but but check this out but meet me as a kid you know just just thinking like oh you know it's nothing of course like sexual and stuff like that but it's more like you know me being a kid and some of my friends like oh there's this one teacher look nice things like that but I want to I want to ask you on a flip on a flip side if if a teacher was to actually like what it gave me to play how would y'all feel about this I'm uh I'm uh I'm gonna be surprised but then I'm gonna be like I'm like cuz like hey say we're friends and I'm 13 years old and I tell you like a a miss such-and-such giving me to play like how would you feel about this I'd be like that ain't right I I'd like to ask her cuz my grades are good too you know same answer okay I would be like oh man who gave you what I would have been like um yeah I'm gonna go killing you in a teacher no I probably would have played off like um recorded and then send it to me and then I was gonna report some people because that's where you was uh you was uh you was a little girl messing with a 56 year old man no ma'am oh I'm gonna get to that and I told you I'm gonna be surprised I'm probably gonna cut you off after then I ain't gonna fake it cuz that's just a word and that that'll make me uncomfortable of the simple fact that a teacher did try to talk to me when I was at Carline and that was weird and he was telling me yes and he was the computer science teacher that white man sit there when I was there he was calling me cute he was like I was like you a pimp like that oh I'm told bitch I'll see you then I go to class and start telling the rest of my friends then I said well I don't keep thinking about it I'm snitching it sounds like it sound like the girls in the room will be uncomfortable telling me that but how would y'all feel fellas on the flip side let's say you have a girl that's a friend that tell you that are you find out from from the girl that's a friend that they mess up with a teacher now how would you feel about this game is game if that's what you do that's what you do no I'm like I'll be like man what the hell lock lock him up or something like that I'll be like I'll be like probably trolling or something say you got a female friend hold on say you got a female friend you know and they have someone older than that like a teacher or somebody that they like how would you feel about this game is really game check this out so y'all know this is a thing that's actually is actually going on and a lot I'm gonna say it's going on more than often I keep on hearing about it so the thing is like it sounds like for the most part it's an uncomfortable thing for the girls and the guys it's almost like y'all care unless it's a girl but ten times out of ten every time this happens it's an adult that's gonna go to jail and they're gonna go to jail for a long time somebody recently and this happened in Normandy somebody in Normandy just got 15 years just based off of evidence and everything because they had a relationship with somebody from middle school so I think the girl was like 12 13 years old the teacher was like 40 but this happened this happened more than often you know and we don't got to say no names so and it's happened more than often not just in school I mean but it's happened more than often not just in school it happens like I mean Kaylee you mentioned it all the time people off the streets I just want to ask I just want to ask what do y'all think the city can do about this you know I feel like God made man God made grown women for a reason because of people like him but they still choose to try to talk to younger people and I just you know I just feel this on front like I should be able to walk down my street without somebody asking oh well your cute girl you got a boyfriend like that's just that's just worth me and I find that very uncomfortable that I have to go through that on a daily basis that's why they'd be like why you always got people watch you walk home because of that I can't even walk back down to the Westinghouse without somebody doing it I feel like they think because I'm younger that I'm not as smart as a grown woman would I mean or so I feel like they'd be trying to take advantage of me being a younger age and I feel like it's totally wrong I mean so you think she was trying to take advantage of you being a young guy yeah she was like can you give me some money if I could get on the bus? I was like bro I'm broke it's crazy I mean I mean that's that's a whole nother thing people on drugs it's a whole nother issue for us particularly for this community you all right Kayla falling on the floor you okay well yeah yeah too too much but um any anything else like when it was the gist of the conversation that we had today yeah I have anything else yeah I want to add or anything oh yeah that's what that's a whole nother topic when it comes to the drugs in this community real quick just in closing cuz we're gonna go ahead and close out let's just you know say something that you that you feel like the community can actually do when it comes to different issues and then what other teams could do when it comes to this I mean like a solution to some of these problems that we're having with relationships and then even with what's going on in the community when it comes to these predators you know stuff like that you know we could solutions well everything that we talked about what are some solutions that we could add or solutions that maybe the city could do uh uh uh the city? I was gonna tell Ms. Ledger cuz you know she'll handle it all these predators outside these predators that old lady tried to get me at the bus stop oh exactly yeah I tell Ms. Ledger she gonna get them yeah I feel like a solution is try to protect yourself with some type of something in your surrounding my big brother I feel like if I was older I would have had a full so yeah so just so they can't miss me but I'm not gonna if I had a car I have a good yeah but but it's the age I am now I'm gonna have a pavement or a I'm gonna stop somebody I'm gonna see how it feels oh you gonna be a Jeffrey Dahmer but you gonna park your um what? oh well yeah just like movies where they stop people like y'all don't watch me walk home don't watch me walk home gang I ain't gonna hit you tell my uncle for real you gonna tell your uncle? tell your uncle alright so it sounds like you know we some of us looking for protection in many different ways as far as telling you know our relatives or somebody or a loved one or you know carrying protection and it's crazy that you gotta carry protection just to walk home from school you know so it's interesting but solutions solutions when it comes to being in a young relationship I want to hear that real quick as well don't put your heart into it cause everything is temporary oh god don't put your heart into it cause everything is temporary don't have a girlfriend every week don't don't have a girlfriend or a boyfriend in every grade ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm You say what? You say what? That's not no solution! Cause you supposed to do that anyway You said be loyal Yup You supposed to do that anyway I mean that's a good answer I mean So So Real quick So it sounds like It sounds like nobody really Hey come on man It sounds like No one really take y'all relationships seriously Is that correct y'all? Y'all really take It's temporary We just wanna have fun And do all this other stuff So it's gonna be temporary regardless That's why I'm not gonna put my words to it Oh y'all love you No cause I'm not What you're saying is keep your head in school Keep your head in the books I got that Oh my god Alright so we gonna go ahead and close out Alright that's it I'll talk to y'all again