poker face and con face

In this information, the speaker discusses two different approaches to manipulation and strategy: the con phase and the poker phase. The con phase, represented by Yuichi, involves building facades and emotional connections to manipulate others. The poker phase, represented by Anakoji, focuses on stoicism and emotional detachment, using observation and strategic planning to control information and stay ahead of others. To master the poker phase, one must have emotional control and expose themselves to adversity to develop strong emotional control. The concept of progressive overload and changing one's baseline is also important. Visualization can help maintain a poker face. To master the clown face, like Yuichi, one must embrace storytelling and emotional manipulation, create a relatable persona, use misdirection and distractions, and plan a grand reveal. It's important to be socially aware and not use these techniques in long-term relationships. The speaker provides a list of skills to and Anakoji, two characters in different realms of fiction, embodying unique approaches to manipulation and strategy. Yuichi's con phase is about building elaborate facades, creating emotional connections to manipulate others. He reads stories, masks invulnerabilities, and creates distractions, all while maintaining a friendly, trustworthy persona. This approach is dynamic, engaging, and often emotionally charged. In contrast, Anakoji's poker phase represents stoicism and emotional detachment. His method involves observation and strategic planning, keeping emotions and intentions concealed. Anakoji's strength lies in the ability to remain unreadable and calm under pressure, using silence and accuracy as tools. He manipulates by controlling information and staying several steps ahead of his peers. While Yuichi's con phase thrives in emotional manipulation and elaborate schemes, Anakoji's poker phase is about control, calculation, and unyielding facade. Both methods, though different in execution, are similar in their ultimate goal, to guide and influence outcomes according to their plans. Today, I'll teach you how to master both, and don't worry, I've seen all the other videos on this subject, and they're all trash. Let me teach you guys some real shit that's not some generic information. To master the poker phase like Anakoji, you need to understand that its power relies on the context in which you're using it. Have a strong awareness of your environment. Analyze the situation, and then decide if a poker phase will benefit you. A poker phase 24-7 is childish and immature. It shows a lack of social awareness. The key is understanding when and where to use it. Fully embody the poker phase. Step 1 is emotional control. You might be thinking, wait, this is generic, you don't make shit videos like this, EG, what are you doing? Like, everyone else did this, but it's the objective truth in to mastering the poker phase, so they were right. So let's just explain this first, so the second method and third method are actually more, like, making sense. So this is a side effect of overcoming adversity in life. As human beings, pain and challenge force us to grow. By finding ways to overcome life's difficulties, you develop strong emotional control. Many people try to emulate Anakoji's cool demeanor without having to go through any real pain or tribulations, making their efforts transparent. In contrast, Anakoji's poker phase was forged through constant exposure to adversity in the right room. So you can't really do this unless you have gone through adversity, and you can only do that through emotional control. So you guys understand what I'm saying now. So now let's talk about the first real method into mastering your poker phase. So this is the concept of progressive overload and changing your baseline. Having a poker phase is essentially the ability to not be phased in tough slash normal situations. The only way you can do that is by facing extreme adversity on a daily basis, and normal and tough situations are below your baseline of something you get phased by. So that may sound like a bit complicated, but let me explain it. So let's just say your baseline is something you get phased by right now, is that someone starts yelling at you very loudly or someone suddenly throws a punch at you. So that's your baseline, and that would crack your poker phase. But since Anakoji fought 50 plus pro fighters in the white room, some puny punch wouldn't really make a flinch in the classroom of the elite, it's like Rewind threw a punch at him. Now I'm not saying that you have to fight 50 pro fighters, but I mean push yourself and be in extreme scenarios every day. So normally hard situations that people are like usually think are hard are nothing to you. So for example, let's say you start sparring with your friends once a week for a couple of months. By then you have experienced a feeling of someone throwing a punch at you more than 99% of the population. Hence, if someone were to throw a punch at you, you wouldn't really flinch, or personally I wouldn't. So understand this concept and do everything according to this. So if speaking in front of your class is something that's below your baseline, it's something that fails you, and that would break your poker phase. Start speaking in front of more people, or like start speaking from your phone and your family, whether it's through social media or whatever, and just push the boundaries every day so you're not faced by little shit. Like for example, if you're in phys ed class and that's like something that you're scared of, if you wake up early and start working out every day, you won't be faced by that shit. Like you understand like this concept? If you don't, just re-watch it and like keep re-watching it until you understand this, because I think it's pretty simple. It's basically like progressively overloading in the gym. But yeah, let's move on to the next step. So I meant to say method, not step. So the last method that will help you never crack your poker face is visualization. Anyway, you shouldn't have a poker face 24-7. Go back to my like period method, like my period steps. Shit, I messed it up again, but who cares. Every day before you sleep, visualize the day tomorrow and everything you will do tomorrow. All the possible negative outcomes and all the possible positive outcomes. And trust me, this won't ruin your sleep, because by the time you're like done this, like you're basically just streaming. Like, I will fall asleep, so don't worry. But this is legit what Napoleon and Alexander the Great used to do before they went out to the battlefield. They would imagine the fight in a thousand different ways, in a thousand different ways they would use to win. Hence, when they stepped onto the battlefield, it looked like they experienced the same fight a thousand times before, and they were legit unfazed. And this is what actually people said in history about them. So if you were to do this into your daily life, which is basically a battle, you'll basically be unfazed. But like I said, you want to be socially, like, not, don't be socially retarded. Man, that's not bad for YouTube. Not bad. But you don't want to be an idiot, don't have a poker face in here, and I don't want to coach you in your classroom. Alright, so now that we have the poker face taken care of, let's move to the clown face. To master Yuichi's clown face, honestly the easiest way is in working at a drama theater. But other than that, let's begin. To master Yuichi's clown face technique, it's about embracing the art of storytelling and emotional manipulation. First, you need to craft a compelling persona that is trustworthy and relatable. This involves creating a backstory that resonates emotionally with your audience. Make them more likely to empathize with you. Next, focus on strategic misdirection. Use your words and actions to subtly shift attention and suspicion away from you. Build alliances by connecting with influential individuals and gaining their trust. This helps in creating a support network that can defend you if needed. Yuichi's faces are usually a direct representation of what the person believes it should be. So when some dude always thinks he's cornered Yuichi, Yuichi actually plays into it. But inside he knows it's a GG. So the clown face is basically the opposite of the poker face. It's basically proving to your opponent that they won by the fact that you had something else like a trump card planned. So you need to let your opponents know that they are in control. Another crucial aspect is orchestrating distractions. Create scenarios or conflicts that divert attention, allowing you to work with your plans without drawing too much scrutiny. The grand reveal is where your master plan comes together, showing your adversaries that have been outplayed. This requires meticulous planning and an acute understanding of human psychology. So in the end, mastering Yuichi's clown face is about convincing others of a reality you've created, thereby controlling the narrative and ultimately the outcome. To master the clown face like Yuichi, it's about becoming hyper aware and knowledgeable. And a lot of people think that manipulation is some next-level Anakogi Yohan labor shit, but it's mostly because the author specifically creates scenarios where the character can use certain tactics. It's not really how it seems to be. So I'll just leave a list of things that you need to complete to fully master the poker face and clown face. So study human nature, understand psychology, understand non-verbal cues like body language, emotional intelligence, charisma and talking skills, study persuasion and observing and adapting. So I made a video, I don't know if it's out yet or like it's gonna be out, but there's a video called how 14 to 16 year olds can manipulate. It's like a full guide where I actually go in depth and teach you how I just learned all the things I just listed. So watch that video, you might have already watched it, but that's where I teach people how to actually learn these skills. So now let's go over scenarios where you can actually use this because like it's kind of stupid if I just tell you like all these weird stuff but you don't really know how to use it or when to use it. Okay now I'm going to talk about ideal situations where you should use Yuichi's clown face. So you should use them in networking events and negotiations because you want to be showing your emotional side and be building trust and having a positive impression. If you just have like a blank face on the whole time like you're not going to build any friends. So when to not use the clown face is long-term relationships because over time this is dark and crumbles so you just want to be a normal person by then. You don't want to be like some manipulation guy, you know like these are just like you need to have the hyper awareness and knowledge to know when to use it because like life is not like costume relief. So now let's talk about when you should use the poker face. So competitive environment. So in scenarios like corporate boardrooms or strategic planning where revealing is less beneficial, Anikoji's style is pretty decent. Crisis management. So in high pressure situations like if you're in a special forces, army, police officer or like you're just going you're with like a bunch of people and like something like a fire is happening. You don't want to be like oh my god oh my god like Yuichi. You want to have a poker face. You want to be like oh there's nothing. So when you should not use the poker face. So during team-building activities like you want to be a friend. You don't want to be a guy who's fucking loner who's just like trying to be like a Sigma Wolf guy. You want to like show some emotion. Counseling or mentoring. In roles that require emotional openness and understanding, an impassive facade will create barriers. So at the end of the day become knowledgeable, become aware and then use these things in appropriate situations. If you use them during the wrong situation just don't be socially basically brain dead and basically stupid. So that's all for today's video. Peace on the street.