The Upstart Crow said it best in Hamlet. To Be, or Not To Be. We all build up in our minds this battle of survival and existence whenever we face a situation that we are afraid to deal with. I don't mean the external circumstances of happenstance occurring around us. I mean that we face the need to face our own self. That can be scary. We don't know what monster lurks in there. But like all bullies, the monster is putting on a front because it's scared too. Fighting for it's own survival. LOVE!