To truly be grateful I think maybe, just maybe you really do need to have walked a few miles in the other's moccasins. If you haven't had the opportunity or possibly the inclination to do so. Well, Maybe y'all could put a little effort into imagining your own self in that situation. You sure do watch enough of those traumatic scenes in movies and video games. Think for a minute of the after effects of seeing it real time in real life. I bet you'll want to say thanks, too.