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Mr. and Mrs. W discuss their experience bringing a single male into their lifestyle. They initially only sought women and couples, but eventually considered adding a single male. The single male in question was a close friend who had engaged in flirty banter with Mrs. W for some time. After much discussion and hesitation, they decided to proceed with the encounter. Mrs. W was initially worried about the impact on their relationship and had Mr. W's support throughout the process. They had a face-to-face discussion after the encounter to address any concerns. Overall, they considered it an opportunity for exploration and growth within their dynamic. This is Mr. and Mrs. W. R. Swingin' Adventures. I am Mr. W. And I am Mrs. W. So if you are not over the age of 18, please do not listen as this contains adult content. On tonight's episode, we're going to be talking about the single male we brought in to see how we would both feel about it. And if we get time, we will be talking about Halloween at Penthouse Playrooms. Yep. So where to start? With the single male. This is something we have discussed before. You know, you would have heard in previous episodes about adding people in and things. But I was worried about adding a single male into the mix. I think it was because it was a case of we never discussed it. Well, we discussed it, but we hadn't thought that when we started this, we didn't think we would look for single males. Yeah, because that wasn't what our thing was. So it was because of the whole females. This is why we got into the situation. Not situation, lifestyle. This is how we got into the lifestyle. So it's the case of we were looking for women. Yeah. You know, potentially, possibly couples. So then we could couple, swap, or share, whatever. But to start a single male, what the fuck? That's what it was like to me. Yeah, it was never the case of we were outrightly looking for it. Yeah. And we just sat there and thought, you know what? We discussed it several times because someone we know started that way, didn't they? Yeah. And I was like, I don't know how I would feel about that. And we always discussed that if you or we ever did bring in a single male into it, that we would, well, I would be here. See, the thing is, I think it's more the fact of because you like seeing me with other men as well as women. Yeah. I think it was something we wanted to test because it was a situation where we always try everything and we're still, you know. We're still exploring. We're still looking for our boundaries, our group, our dynamic. Yeah, which, you know, we're gonna continue to learn different things. But I think I've discussed in previous episodes that I tried putting off the situation with men. I tried not to think about it. And when you have mentioned it before, I've sort of been like, yeah, yeah, all right. Yeah, maybe another day or later. Yeah, like we'll see. So what got us to the situation where a single man was involved? I have a friend. Yep. I've known for years and... Yep. I'm not gonna give too much away about the vanilla relationship. No. Because the people that do know us, the second I mention any form of vanilla friendship, people are gonna tweak who he is. I don't think he'd be bothered. No. But I think it's more the fact of I'm not out to name him. No, and you never will. No, no, like maybe people might tweak, but, you know, hey-ho, it's not my problem. No. He's aware. He's aware we do this. He is aware that, obviously, we have the podcast. He's aware I've shared our stories, so... Yeah. And you've shared some of our stories with him personally. Yeah. So it isn't the case that he doesn't, he knows quite a lot. He's been here and known since the start of the vanilla friendship. Yeah. So it was the case of, you know, we were vanilla friends, and I don't even know where it come from, but one day out of the blue, it was like the flirty banter that you have with people. Yeah, and you even went, what the hell? Yeah, I was like, it's a bit random. He's sitting there telling me that, you know, he wants to do this or that, or, you know, he's thought of this or that. And it was just like, all right, okay. I didn't sort of see him in that way before. No, you didn't. And that's the case of where people wouldn't understand it, but he understood. Yeah. And he knew he could have that with you. I don't think he realised, I think he was just pushing his luck, or seeing if he could. Quite possibly. The thing is, he is young. Yeah. So it's the case of, you know, to a lot of young people anyway, you always try and push your luck. Although, sometimes we still try and push luck. Yeah. So, where was I? Flirty Banner. So with this Flirty Banner, it just become like a more of a norm. Yeah. And it really, it was like. Every now and then he'd send you a message, how are you, what you doing, all is fine. Yeah, I can't wait to get in between your legs and all shit like that. And I was like, yeah, all right. You know. It even got to the point where we even sat there both talking and I was like, and you went to me, if he actually doesn't come and do it, I've had enough. Yeah, but that's, you know, a bit sort of after. So, it was more the fact of, he'd be like, yeah, I want to get in between your legs. I want to come fuck you. And it's like, okay, if you say so. Like, you haven't come here yet, so. Yeah. But you know, I'm not. You ain't done it yet, so. Yeah, I just took it with a pinch of salt. I didn't listen to what he was saying, basically. And there was a numerous amount of times he'd message and he's like, right, I'm going to come over this weekend or I'm going to come over during the week. So, okay, it never came. And it didn't bother me to an extent because he's a friend. Yeah. So, it was like, I knew it was all mouth. You know, he's one of those young boys trying to push their luck with an older bird and all that sort of stuff. So. But at the same time, the circumstances, he was in at that point. It was the flirty banter. Yeah. Because he, respectfully, he couldn't, he could banter with you and he knew he could have that. Yeah. But he couldn't do anything at that point. Yeah, which I understand. But then, I think because I had just had enough of the repetitiveness. Yeah. And I think that's what it was. So, because I had had enough of the repeated, oh, I'm doing this and I'm doing that and it never happened, I just thought, oh, fuck it, you know. I've had enough. Yeah. So, then it got to the point where we ended up messaging and he actually said to me, I want to come over. And I was like, okay, that's fine. Like, I've told you, come over when you wanna come over. Let us know and we'll pick you up. Yeah, and it was a great, he was like, I want to do this. I'm like, okay, that's fine. I'm not saying we can't do this, but actually do it. Yeah. And I had said to you that this is it. If he does not turn up this week. There's no more chances. No, he blew that shit. I ain't about hanging around and fucking going around in circles. You want me, you have me. You don't pussyfoot around it and you don't. It was just too long, if that made sense. Yeah. Because it had been going on too long, I was like, can I border this? Yeah, you got. But actually physically show me. Show me that you want me. Show me how much you want to get in between my legs or fuck me. Don't just keep saying it. Yeah. Because at the end of the day, but at the same time is you've got to look at it in the other respect. There was someone else else in that picture at that time. Yeah, but it doesn't matter whether somebody was there or not. Like, cause that was his situation then. But it's more the fact of, yeah, you were with someone and you said this. You're now not with someone and you're saying this. So fucking do it. Yeah. Get your ass over and fuck me basically. Yeah. So we actually got to the point where he turned up. We didn't just turn up. Well, no, I went and picked him up. Obviously. But. Well, obviously to ask not to listen. Yeah. So I went and picked him up and I brought him here and I was like, fuck. What have I actually got myself into here? It was more the case of, yes, we had discussed him being here. We had discussed something happening, but we had also discussed prior, you being there. To support. For my first single. To support, yeah. Yes. And I think it was more the fact of, I knew you were up the road. Yep. This was the beginning of the week. Oh, right. Yes, it was. Yes, it was. He'd come on a Monday. No, he didn't. Well, he'd come on a Tuesday then. But it was the beginning of the week. It was Tuesday, Tuesday day you picked him up. All right, so the Tuesday. Yeah, so it was still the beginning of the week. So I had all week with you up the road with your head in your head. Yeah. And I was worried, like, you know, what if it causes an issue between us? We can't confront the situation there and then. We have to, you know, leave it a whole week before we can have a face-to-face. Because it's different when you're over the phone. When you're face-to-face, we can discuss it. You know what to look for in me to see when I'm getting pissed off or. Yeah, it's your facial expressions. It's your body language. So this is why we always do a face-to-face on things that have happened or things that are happening at the time and whatever. Unless, like, before our last episode where it took me nearly all day to get home. We'd discuss that over the phone. But. That was a different situation. Yeah. That was a no-play weekend. But it was the case of he was here, this is now, what the fuck do I do? Yeah. And I turned around and said to you, you do, he's been on about it for so long with you that it was the case of if he didn't do it that night or you both, if you didn't feel comfortable, yes, fair enough, it wouldn't have happened. Yeah. But as I said to you, if it's gonna happen, just let it. Because simple enough it is, is you get inside your own head, you start overthinking the situation. At the end of the day, it's just sex. Yeah, no, I get that. But at the same time, it was sex with a really close friend and. I understand where you're coming from with the situation we've had before. Yeah. But I knew this one was different. Yeah, I think I knew that anyway, but it was the case of, I was in my head. I was in my head and that's where I was staying. You know, he was here during the day, not a problem. We had dinner, I had put the kids to bed and stuff. Yeah. But he knew, I just wanna make this perfectly clear, he knew our children. Oh yeah, long, he's known them. He's known. The youngest since he was born. Way before that, like he saw the middle child as a couple of years old, so. Yeah, cause he, yay. Yes, so, you know, he knew my children and I was comfortable with him being in my house. Yeah. As we've said, he was a vanilla friend, so of course he could come in my house. He's been to me before. Yeah, so he knew boundaries. These were one thing I said to him, so I- We discussed a lot of stuff, well you had discussed stuff with him before it even got here. Yeah, so I had messaged him and I said, right, you have rules. Mr. W has said, you can come to my house, you can do what you wish with me, but these are the rules. And I said, safe sex. Yeah, 100%. I said, nothing around the children. Yeah, zero. I wouldn't even do that with a female. Yeah, no, I get it. And I had said, respect each other's boundaries. If I say no, stop, don't go there, whatever. Discuss it. Yeah. See where that issue started. Yeah, and he was like, of course I'm gonna stick to them. He was like, what do you take me for? Yeah, but you've got to get them across. Oh yeah. Because if you don't, he could do something, he could be like, whoa, what the fuck are you doing? Yeah. And he's going, whoa, hang on, communication is key. Yeah, so as we said, boundaries were in place, he was here, we had dinner, kids were in bed, and he was like, right, let's stick a film on. Okay, like, that was it. The shyness in me was absolutely ridiculous. And if you could have seen it, you probably would have thought, what the fuck, he's not been like that for a long time. And I literally- It's that case, as I said to you, after we spoke about it, is it's like a new relationship. It is, yeah, yeah, I get it. So it's different to meeting someone in a club, or meeting somebody that's in a lifestyle. This was a friend coming into the situation that, you know, for years it had been spoke about, and I was like, fuck, now it's happening. So I sort of like, got my, I think I was wearing my hoodie, and I sort of pulled it up to my neck, and I was like, yep, okay, like, you know- Cocooning yourself. Yeah, all shut off, and- And didn't he turn around and say, what the fuck's wrong with you? Yeah, he actually laughed at me, and he was like, I know you get shy, but I have never seen you like this before. Like, this is just something else. He was like, you're normally full on control, got your shit together sort of thing in my day-to-day life. Yeah, because that's you. Yeah. But in that situation, you do, you go opposite. Yeah, so I'm quite dominant in my lifestyle, like, everyday lifestyle. In the sexual side of things, I'm quite submissive. Like, I don't like starting things. I don't like the whole being in charge, and sort of, I can't do that to me. Like, that's something I can't do. So, it was just like, yeah, I actually felt like a schoolgirl, and it was like, as in the sense of, you know when you feel like you're being told off, and you're all like. Oh, shit. Yeah, and I just, I don't know what came over me. It was just really weird. And I think, in the end, we were sitting there, and he sort of stuck quite close, and he was like, well, fuck it then. Come here and give me a kiss, or something like that. And I was like, okay. I just sort of like, went with it, and I was like, okay, this isn't too bad. One of the things that was discussed between me and you, and I had discussed with him, was because Mr. W wasn't gonna be here, he wanted pictures, he wanted videos. Yeah. So, I had discussed this with him, and he was like, yep, whatever. You know, I'm down for that. If that's what he wants, that's what we'll give him. Yeah, because at the end of the day, he understood that that was part and parcel of us. Yeah. And that's what I wanted for this thing to happen. Yeah, and it was someone we could actually trust with the whole, let's take pictures and do videos, and I think it actually worked out perfectly. Yep. So, one thing led to another, you know, a few things happened, and I was like, hold on, whilst your head's there, just, you know, pass me my phone. I'm taking a picture. And a video. And a video. And he's like, yeah, yeah, that's fine. So, we sort of grabbed my phone, and I was recording it. Yeah. So, you know, he was doing his thing with his head down there, and I'm like, recording. And then, after, I was like, right, shit. Because where I'm trying to focus on the recording, and obviously, as people are aware, I sort of still don't like my belly. So, I didn't particularly want that in the recording. So, I was trying to focus so hard on not getting that, that I couldn't enjoy myself. Yeah. So, after however long this video was, I was like, right, fuck it, put that down, and then I can focus on what's going on. Yeah. I can enjoy the situation a bit more. So, that then happened, and then we ended up having sex. But the twat, to put it politely, had been play fighting the night before. Yeah. And he had hurt his ribs. So, he kept sort of like wincing in pain. He was like, it's so painful. I was like, right, well, let's just stop. Yeah. You know, we don't have to do this. No. You know, it's fine, I'm good. Yeah, but at that point, I think he was like, no, we're doing this. Yeah, he was like, no, I've, I think he just sacked words were, no, I've started, we're doing this. Yeah. I've told you I'm gonna have you for as long as I can tonight, and I think that was the situation. And I was like, okay, like, just tell me if you need to stop, though. Yeah. So, I felt like there was a hold back, and I think that was more the fact of, because he was in pain. Yeah. After that, we sort of just stopped, chilled, carried on watching whatever we had on, carried on chatting. I was still quite embarrassed. Yeah. Not so much embarrassed, but shy. Yeah. So, I think it was a situation of, I was still sort of like cooped up, kept myself in a corner, wrapped up, and I couldn't even tell you time's gaps, but it was like, you know, let's go again sort of thing. And I was like, okay, that's fine. We actually need to get a video this time. And he was like, yep, that's fine. So, we got in a position where he could video. Yep. Him fucking me, and literally, within minutes that this had happened, we had, well, I had received a message from you, because you'd just woke up. Yeah, because I was a couple hours, but now before I had to start work or so, and I was like, woke up. I knew what you two were doing. Yep. And I was like, all right. So, something must have not happened. Looked on, obviously, WhatsApp to double check that you hadn't sent anything. And I was like, well, she was active an hour ago. No, active like two or three minutes ago. So, she's still awake. Yeah. So, I was like, right, just send her a message. And I think my exact message was, I take it nothing happened. Yeah, because I've not received anything yet. Yeah, and I can't remember if you replied. I actually responded with, bear with, because we've just finished making some. Yeah, but you hadn't finished. Yeah, so, we hadn't finished our night, like, or. Takes at that point. Yeah, so. Stop beating around the bush. No, I was gonna say, like, our session, if that makes sense. Like, so, the whole night was basically a session. There was, you know, it was sort of stop, start, whatever. Yeah. You know, we'd play with each other, chat, play with each other a bit more, chat. And it was, yeah, it weren't just like, right, we're playing, we're fucking, that's that. So, yeah, you messaged me and I replied back saying, you know, we're just finishing making them. I'll get something sent over to you. You then, I went upstairs and we spoke on the phone. Yeah, because you went into the toilet. Yeah, I sent you over what pictures and videos I had. Yeah. And I said, you know, these are what we've made. Well, no, you rung me and we were talking on the phone. You were like, I don't know if I want to send them. Yeah, because I didn't know how you'd act or what would go on in your head. But at the same time, I wouldn't have asked for them if I wouldn't have known in my head that I would have been okay with it. Yes, it was a new concept. Yes, it was a, much as it's gonna sound horrible, it was a tester to see if we could do it or not. Oh, yeah, I'm aware of that. But at the same time, you had to send them. If you'd have never sent them, you'd have never had the opportunity again. Yeah. For the simple fact is, you've done, you've gone against what we've asked, what I've asked for. Yeah, no, I know. I think it was just, I was in my own head, worrying about you being in your own head. So, I'm on the phone and I said to you, I can send them if you want, if you're sure, you've got to be 100%, and you're like, just fucking send them. So I... And I literally did say that because you started to get, you were starting to annoy me because at the end of the day, I said send them, so you sent them. Yeah, so I did, I sent them. And did you watch them while I was on the phone? Did I? I don't think so, because you're like, that's fucking hot. Like, if you two are going to carry on, FaceTime me? No, no. Did you hang up first? I think you said, hang on, let me go to the toilet, I'll send them, and then I'll ring you back. Yeah, maybe. And you sent them, and I was like, fucking a raging bull for the next day, two days. But, before we get onto your ragingness, so, you watched them. Yeah. And we ended up FaceTiming. And you'd come back down. No, no, I was upstairs, and you're like, where is he then? I said, downstairs. He was like, well, take me down. Like, I'll speak to you both, it's not an issue. And I think he felt a bit awkward because, one, he knew you, he knew our situation, but he hadn't seen you like that, he hadn't heard you sort of be like, go on, like. Go on, fuck you, go on. And he, I think he actually did turn around and say to you, I haven't seen Mr. W like that. Yeah, it's a shock to me, like, I don't know how to take him, and I'm like, it's fine. So. Because obviously, all the other times he's seen me, he's a bit. In professional situations. Yeah. So, I actually brought the phone downstairs, and I was like, oh, look, you know, Mr. W's on the phone. Yeah. And. We were having a chat, and. Yeah, and then, he was like, so you, I've got time to sit and watch, are you actually gonna fuck her? And he was like, what? Like, get on with it. And I went all silly, and I was like, this is even more awkward, like, you know, I've been in situations where you've watched me, but to watch me on FaceTime, whilst I'm at home, fucking someone else, it was just a complete new thing for me. And, I get that. But it's fucking hot. Yeah, I get that. Especially, well, once you got, like, camera angle right. That was the worst thing. So, we were like, oh my God, okay, let's go for it. And, it was the fact of, we had to try and position the camera on, it was the sofa bed, so we had to position the camera on the sofa bed. I had nowhere to stand my phone. Maybe next time, I'll just find a fucking, the ring light, and have it. Don't even fucking go there. We have said this before, yes, and I'm aware. But, you know, that was my first time in that situation. Yeah. So, you know, it's a situation where we were trying to position the phone, and Mr. W's on the phone. I've got my back towards the phone. I was sort of, you're more to the side of me, weren't you slightly? And, me and, I'm gonna call him Mr. S. Yeah. So, me and Mr. S were, you know. In the corner. In the corner, doing our thing. And, I think it was only a few minutes, but he was like, I feel slightly awkward. He was longer than that. Was it? Yeah. Bear in mind, I'd blown my load at this point, and got dressed, and started my day. Oh, okay, fair enough. But, he was like, I'm starting to feel a bit awkward. Like, I feel like there's a lot of pressure. You know, and he sort of, because he was whispering that to me, and I didn't know if you had heard. No, I didn't hear any of that. And, I was like, no, no, it's fine. Like, it's okay. I think he had had the disappearing, sort of. Yeah. Like, he went soft, basically, because of the pressure. Yeah. That's understandable, though. Yeah. You know, it was his first time in that situation, as well. He's not done nothing like that before. No. So, with that, it was like, that's fine. Like, after me, you know, we ended up sitting and speaking to you for a bit longer, didn't we? Not too much longer, because I think you had started, and I needed to actually try and get some sleep. It was what, four o'clock in the morning? I think about the time we got off the phone, was that our free call at four? Yeah, so, a long-ass fucking night. Yeah. And, I actually went to sleep, and I woke up, and I was like, shit. Like, I need to ring Mr. W. I need to know what's going on in his head. I need to know how he feels. If he liked it, if he didn't like it, you know, I was literally in panic mode. Yeah. But what happened when I rang you? So, I rang and told you it was fine? Yeah. It's fine. I was, I've been fucking on it all morning. Oh, I'm bad. I can normally crack a few out. But how bad were you? Five in, what, I'd say six hours. Five wanks and six hours at the thought of me fucking someone else. Yeah, and watching a video. So, yeah, like, it was just a whole new thing, and I just... I, near enough, was looking like fucking Popeye by the end of that day. Well, I was pleased it went as well as what it did. Yeah. And there weren't no awkwardness after. No. With me and Mr. S, we were, you know, basically back to our daily life. Yeah. And it was like, you know, you're right, we went for a walk, we just done the usual shit, keep busy, and, you know, rather than cooped up inside with the kids. So, we ended up, he ended up staying again, didn't he? Yeah, because he was due to go home that night. Yeah. But he was like, can I just stay? It's nice to get away. Yeah, and we were like, you're more than welcome to stay for as long as you want. Yeah. Obviously, we knew he would have to go home at some point. But at the same time, he knows he can come here for a couple of days, weekend, whatever. Yeah. But as I sat around and said to you from day one, is we weren't gonna do it as he was basically like, he could come here every time. We know, we basically said that if it happens again, you want to be here as well. Yeah. Which was fine, and he was like, yeah, I'm up for that. But that's a bit further down. So, you know, he ended up staying again. Did you sleep together that night? I think once, or it might have even just been play. I can't even think, to be honest. Right. Maybe we need to backtrack on our messages and have a look. But no, it was nice because it wasn't just the fact of he was here, so he had to play. No. Like, we just spoke quite a lot. And obviously, like I keep saying, because we're familiar friends, it was in the case of we could just chat. Yeah. Like, it was just normal. Yeah, and that's where it's better. Yeah. We had gone for a random bloke of a site. But as I said to you from the start, when we first started discussing it, I think it needed to be someone we knew and trusted. We had discussed it with being someone we knew because then obviously they respect boundaries and they know dynamics and stuff. But then at the same time, we were in two minds of should it be someone we don't know because then you're not going to ruin a friendship. Things aren't going to get awkward. But I think it was the case of because we were in such a town, is it town? I don't know. We were just confused on whether to go for a stranger or someone we know. And it just so happened that he appeared at that time. So we took that time. So anyway, yeah, he was here in a total of two nights. I took him back home the following day. And I was like- Yeah, because then you had work on the front. Yeah. And I was like, I need my reclaim. Like, I needed that. And to know that you were still away for the rest of the week. It was like, I couldn't have that. And I was craving that so bad. And the worst thing is, like, I don't know if people would agree with me. If you don't have your reclaim that night or the next day, at least, it's not a reclaim. No, it's just general. It's just sex. Like it's, you know, whatever you want to call it, sex, fucking, making love, whatever with your partners. But it was just like a normal time that we had that time. So I had actually said to you at that point, I was like, it didn't feel like the reclaim. It hasn't felt like the reclaim that we've had before. And I said that if something was to happen, I need him to be here. Or it needs to be- Like the night before your home or something. Yeah. So then I know the second you get home, that's it, you're mine. I can have that. And I think that was the only thing that I didn't like about my experience. No. The fact that I couldn't have you when I wanted you. Yeah. Would I try it again? Yes. Did I enjoy myself? Yes. Would you do it with me in that situation again? Like another single male? Another single male, what, with us? Or- You. So another single male with me while you're away? I think it would have to be someone on ice. Yeah, or we've built that friendship with first. Yeah, as we had discussed together, I would bring him back in. Yeah. And as long as it was a case of I had you coming home, you know, around the time, then yeah, he can come during the week. If not, it's gonna have to be weekends where you're here to witness it. Yeah, or join in. Yeah, yeah, or that. So yeah, we discussed that. We have said that, you know, there's potential. Yeah, there's a potential of more. I enjoyed myself, I still. You shocked yourself. I did shock myself. The fact that I enjoyed it as much as I enjoy it considering I want my women. Yeah. Don't get me wrong, if two people were standing a female and a male, and I had been with both- You'd have taken both. I'd have them both, because I can enjoy the female whilst enjoying, you know, being fucked. That's my thing. My thing is, I will play and play and play with a woman. There's a cow coming home. But I need to be fucked after. Yeah. And that's something that we've done before and we've discussed before. Yeah. So yeah, that rounded up my first time with a single male. And I think we've got time to discuss- It isn't that long. No, no. So we have time to discuss, paint the hats. At Halloween. Yeah, I'm gonna let you take over this one, because I have spoke- Yeah. Fucking shit loads, and they're probably bored of my voice right now. No, this is someone- Someone might not be. Yeah. I know she likes this. Yeah, so we obviously went to, we realised after one of the last episodes- Of me discussing, oh no, we did nothing in October. We had a month off. Bullshit. No, we didn't. We went to Penthouse Playroom for Halloween. But- Why did we end up at Penthouse? Because it was a special lady's with red hair's birthday. So, Marvellous Sixen. Yep, and Marvellous Stag. Well, it was Marvellous Sixen's birthday. Yeah. So it's her celebration. Yeah, so we went to see them at Penthouse. Yep. They brought up B&P from Untamed, or the owners of Untamed. A few others. Yeah, a few others come up. Can't remember their names. That's really bad. No, I think it's because we didn't interact. So, it was a dark Alice in Wonderland themed. Yep. And I am, sorry I don't know on this, I understand it was a dark themed night, but too dark. But anyway- No, that was too dark in the club. Yeah, I know. Yeah, so, but the dark themed night, I expected there to be a lot more dress up and like sort of Halloween-ness, so to speak. Yes. And- I think that's where they, because there's only so many characters. Yes, but if you double up, you double up. I'm pretty sure we, us little group, were more dressed up than the rest. Yeah, probably. But at the same time, Halloween should be like Halloween party, go nuts. Yeah, although the tutu I was wearing, three other people were wearing, and one of them was the owner. Yeah. So, we've clearly got good taste. But, for anybody who hasn't actually seen the Halloween outfits, they are on Instagram, I think. Yep. Twitter, and even TikTok. Yep, there's a little video on TikTok. So, yeah, backtrack, we went to Penthouse. Yep. It wasn't our first time at Penthouse. It was our fourth, fourth time? Yeah, quite possibly. It was our fourth time. Okay, so, you know, they hadn't actually been there before. We were the ones that gave them a tour, and it was really weird, like- Obviously, I'd like Marvel's Vixen, and Marvel's SAG, and B&P. Yep, so, it was the case of- I think that was quite weird, doing that tour, especially with other club owners. Yeah, but- So, they could see- Yeah, but it was more the fact of, like, we found that at VA, I'm in my element. I can be like, you know, this is this, this is that, at VA. Whereas, I was actually like that at Penthouse. I'm showing them around, going, you know, look at this, and this is in that room, and it was just really weird, because Penthouse wouldn't be one of my top picks. No. So, you know, as much- We like Penthouse with the bed hoppers, and Wanderlust. As an event, yes. Yeah. I'm not too keen on it being a public event. No. So, yeah, we were at Penthouse. We were enjoying some time. Yeah, we was. Penthouse is a bit of a hard one for us. I think we've always had issues there, and that night was exactly the same. So, we argue. We don't argue. We debate. Yeah. We debate. We have heated conversations, and it was a case of, we didn't actually have a heated conversation that day. No. There was just something in the air, something just didn't feel right. No, it didn't. It's something that was off with that place, that night. We like light, airy places. Yeah, but it's more than that. I personally, I'll just throw it out there. That atmosphere just didn't seem right with who we were with, in all honesty. I know that Stag had, I think he had a bellyache or heartburn or something. You know, so that sort of put him down to how he normally is. Yeah. And obviously, because then, because Fixen's worried about him, she couldn't enjoy herself as much. So, I just think the whole thing, you know, everyone seemed to be withdrawn. Yeah. We couldn't be ourselves. We couldn't enjoy our time. No, and as much as I love them too, that was their best night. No, and I hate to say it, but the time we saw that prior, which was at the social, that wasn't a good situation either. So, we had had two bad situations. I know everything's not gonna be high all the time, but we had had two bad situations, and I was like, the fuck? You know, is this something that's generally... With us. Gone wrong with us? Is it something that's, you know, maybe there's a few problems underlying elsewhere? You know, do we need to discuss it? Just a lot of shit was going on in my head, and I had started distancing myself without realising I was distancing myself. And in all fairness, I don't think it was a situation, I don't think it was a situation where I'd want to go and recap and re-sort of, you know, do. I'd rather, I would rather it be the case of, we just see them at clubs, we see them at socials, but we still do our own thing, I think, because we knew it was her birthday. Yeah, and they'd obviously come to our birthday. Yes, so I think it was the case of we wanted to do something for her, so that's what we'd done. Even though we did miss his birthday, but we made it up. The week before, yeah. Yeah. So, it was the case of everything was off that night, and in all fairness, you know, they left and we were unaware to start with. I was like, okay, you know. Didn't we go back down to the lockers and we see they was empty? Yeah. And that's when we were like, what the fuck have them two done? Yeah, threw everything off. So, I just, I just like, I think I actually said to you, oh, I'm not doing this now, like, let's just go back. Yeah. Because we didn't feel comfortable anyway. Didn't you see B&P anyway? Yeah, we saw B&P. And then we went to grab a drink, didn't we? Yeah, when I grabbed a drink, we actually went off and played, the two of us. And we even said to him like, look, if you want to wait, and we'll get an Uber back to the hotel with you. Because we took the camper. Yes. So, we were actually sleeping in the camper that night. And after we had played, I searched everywhere, or we searched everywhere for them and we couldn't find them. Yeah. So, we messaged. Dixon. Dixon and said, can't see B&P, can you find out if they've left? Because we didn't want, we're one of these people, if we say like, we get an Uber back with your taxi, we don't like to not do that. Because one, it's slightly disrespectful. Yep. Because you've said that you'll get a taxi back and you don't. And then that person, he's then like, oh, we've got to pay for an Uber back themselves. If I say I'll do it, I'll do it. So, we obviously couldn't find them. Yeah, so we headed back. Yeah. Turned out they'd already gone back. Yeah, because they couldn't find us. Yeah. But, we had got into the camper and we're like, yeah, we're both hungry now. And we, again, aren't drinkers. We didn't drink. I think we had one. Or I might have had two. But, it was a case of- I think I only had one. Yeah, so it was a case of like, we can't get a delivery anyway. Plus, it's a bit cold. So- Yeah, because we haven't sorted the electric or something at that point. Yeah, so it was a case of, let's just leave. Let's just sort of go. And, you know, see how far we get home. If we get tired, we can stop off. So, we ended up going to grab food. And then- Drove home. Headed home. And, it was a long drive. Yeah. Like, it was stupid o'clock. We were tired. We made it back though. Yeah. So, we ended up getting back, parking it up, jumping in bed. Yeah, I couldn't wait to get bed. It had been a really random night. Yeah. So, there wasn't actually much for us to tell you about that event or that occasion. Of our trip out. It was literally start, middle, finish. Not something too enjoyable. I think it's because I couldn't switch off from certain things. No. And this is why I said, even did turn around and say to you is, I don't want to do Penthouse again. Unless it's an event. Yep. Unless it is with Wanderlust and- The Bed Helpers. I think if it was an event with somebody else, I still don't think I'd be too keen. So, when it comes to the Penthouse, we're just going to do something we enjoy. Yeah. And we actually had an event coming up with them. Yes. Which will actually be on the next episode, won't it? Yep. Yeah. Because if you remember- Yes. It was two weeks. No. It wasn't even two weeks. Yeah, it was. Yeah, it was. So, we had Penthouse at Halloween, then we were at the weekend at home, and then the weekend after that was we were back down there. Yeah, because it worked out, because obviously our babysitter was doing one a month for that, or one night. No, she was going to do two nights every month, and it planned out that she could have them for that whole weekend. But, that episode is going to be out next week. Yep, but as for there, as for that night, how would you sum that up? Normal, I'd say. It was lovely to see them, and have dinner with them. Yes. Trubb situation. I weren't feeling it. No. I weren't feeling the whole night. No, it's too busy. I don't know. Too busy, it was too dark. It was something, to put it that way. There was something in the air. I sensed it from the minute we got a car to leave here, or the van. As soon as we got in the van, I just knew something weren't going to go right. And, it sort of went sort of how I expected. We even joked around that we had tickets for the act. Yeah. Didn't we? Not going to lie. It wasn't technically a joke. No, it wasn't. We had been aware there were still tickets available, so we could have got a ticket at any point. And, in all fairness, if we decided not to go for a drink and have a play ourselves, we would have ended up at V.A. Yep. So, I kicked myself that we didn't go V.A. 100%. Yes. Even though it was for Marvellous' Birthday. Birthday, if I'd known what I know now, I said to her, we don't do, unless it's with the Bedhopper, the Wanderlust. Yeah, we don't do Penthouse. And, I know they're going to listen to this episode. It's nothing against you guys. It's not. It's generally that club. Saying is. Something hangs over us at that club. You know, it was, what did you say, our third time? At that point? Fourth. Our fourth time there, I'm pretty sure it was our third. But... No, yeah, it was our third, sorry. So, you know, each time we'd been there, there was an issue, like me and Mr. W debated, he disagreed, whatever. But, that time, it was then the case of, I think because we just expected something to happen, it happened. Yeah. But, come next week, you'll find out whether it is generally Penthouse is doomed for us, or whether it... It got better. Yeah. So, we are actually going to wrap it up there. Yep, and as this one, we'll hopefully be coming out by tomorrow. Yeah, so, if you're listening to this now, it is a day late going out, because we are literally... Recording. Recording the day it's meant to come out. We've just had such a busy time. Yeah, we got some recorded, and they've obviously gone out, and then stuff just, general life come up. Yeah. And we just couldn't... We couldn't get a backlog of them, so, yeah. So, Mrs. W was keeping me up too late at night. What's that? I had to go back to work when you wanted to do the last one. Oh, okay, yeah, last week, you worked an extra day for the weekend, you were only home for 24 hours. But, anyway, you'll hear about that next week, all the way on after. Mm-hmm. So... We do apologise that this one's out late. We also apologise that we've mumbled, jumbled a couple of different things in this. But we're trying to... We're gonna probably open the next couple. Yeah. They may be longer. And then, as of the new year, if everything goes to plan, once we've done our recap of the year, that's gonna be... So, we're trying to get up to date. We're trying to get up to date, and that's why we're doing the weekly releases. And we're hoping, if we can get the next couple of things out within the next couple of weeks, then we can do a yearly recap, have a breakdown of everything we've gone through, where we've got to. Yep. And then they will be coming out, hopefully fortnightly, rather than weekly, for the pure fact of... We just don't have the time. We have a life. We have children. Yep, and we can't be doing this. As much as we love the lifestyle... We can't. It's not our priority. So... And I think everyone can understand that. Yeah. If you're doing it every weekend, it is nice. If you're a single, doing it every weekend, brilliant. Yeah, but as a couple who have a family, I don't think every weekend going out doing things is... You know, or during the week. I don't think that's right. No. So... We're gonna try and... Obviously, as we said, our babysitter has said that we can have two a month. So, we're gonna try and get out. Yep. So, we will try and get out. We'll try and, you know, do a recording every couple of weeks. Just keep you updated on our situations. But, we will keep repeating this section, just so you're aware of the next ones leading up. So, for now, we will wrap it up. Yep. We will say our goodbyes. We need to do socials. So, feel free to drop us a message. Yeah. Or follow, or anything on our socials. Our socials are... Instagram. X. Furb. Swing Up. I feel like we're missing one. No. No? Okay. So, on that note, we wanna wish you all a Merry Christmas. And, obviously, there will be one out before the New Year. So, we wish you a Happy New Year in that one. But, if... If you don't listen to that one, then Happy New Year. Yeah, so, have a fantastic Christmas. Have a good New Year. Remember, if you're going out, have plenty of fun, and drive safely for those who are driving. So, thank you for listening. And goodbye. Goodbye.