Parenting Class 1

All right, I think we're going to go ahead and get started because we want to honor your time. I really appreciate you guys all being here tonight. I think it's a blessing. Otherwise, we'd just be talking to peers. So, I know we have people here to listen to us tonight. My name is Tori. This is my husband, Mike. We're going to be doing a Parenting by Design class. This is a new class. It has not been taught before. So, a lot of new stuff. I mean, old information because parenting stuff kind of repeats. But, we are not new to teaching parenting, though. We have taught several other classes at the church and other places before. So, this is one that we lived out. All of the parenting we've taught you, we've actually lived it as opposed to disagreeing with it. So, it comes from real life experience. It's really bad, I believe. All right, why don't we pop up a picture of our family. All right, so we have five kids. We have one girl, four boys. All my boys are over six, but he's just sending them. So, yeah, they're pretty amazing. Our daughter's 22, just graduated from college, and our boys are 20, 17, 14, and 11. So, that's our family. That's where we've gained our experience. And they're great. They're loving God, serving God. The older ones are starting to walk more and more in their destiny. So, that's exciting to see. And it's a new phase of life when you have adult children. You know, Margaret, you, does anybody else have adult children? Or is there anybody else? Five and under? Eight and under? Okay. So, we're pretty young. Yeah. But, yeah, we have adult children now, so they're a blessing. Like, all my teenage boys, they'll give me hugs every morning, and, you know, it's a good thing. So, we do have a lot of group. Patrick and Gillian asked us to teach this class and share with you guys wisdom. So, that's what we're going to do. All right, so the goal for this, wait, I'm going to go back. You guys have something to fill out before we get started. So, the first thing I want you guys to fill out really quick is, what are you hoping to get out of this class? That'll kind of help give us direction on what you need. And then one to two or one to three questions you have about parenting. And we'll try to answer them throughout the class. And if you don't have any questions tonight and want to email me, that's fine, too. I'll give you my email, and you can send them later if you're like, oh, I have no idea. I just got off of work, and I'm just like, ugh. And you can email me later. So, any person can fill out one of these, just so I can check it out. I'll give you my email if you don't have any questions right now that you want answered later. Can everybody see these syllabus? All right, I'll tell you what we're going to cover tonight. There are six classes. They'll get more practical and more in-depth as we go. So, tonight will be more like water, I guess, terms. And then they'll get more in-depth. So, I just want to let you know the goal for this class is for us to be able to share biblical principles with you about parenting. It gives you a foundation to stand on and a lens to view things through. We're hoping to have fun and give you practical applications so you can apply it even when you go home from class. We don't claim to be experts, so don't put that title on us if we're not there yet. But we do have things that the Holy Spirit has shown us and we'd just like to share with you guys and pass on any help and knowledge we can do. And our hope is that this will help you in your parenting now, but also that you'll be able to refer back to it and use it later on. Because parenting is a journey, as you probably all know. It's not a one-time thing. It's a continuous journey. So, that's what our goals for the class are as we present it. So, would you like to pray for me? Sure. Okay. All right. Are you guys ready for our quiz? Now we've rehearsed it, right? Okay. Let's roll out the quiz. You can shout out the answers. You can write it down. And I'll send it to you. All right. True or false? Your couch will change color when you become a parent. Okay. True. Okay, next one. Advantages of having children are being able to play with toys and video games, having a wall artist, tax write-offs and refunds, or relationships. All of these ones. All right. Parenting is easy, hard, rewarding, or all of the above? All of the above. All of the above. So, the main reason for becoming a parent is to be fulfilled, have a mini-me, be cool and drive a minivan, or to have a bobby pin. Oh, you can say minivan. It's not your dream car. All right. Good job. What's the next one? All right. Good job. With that, let's get started. What is a parent? I want you guys to tell me. This will be an interactive class, by the way. What makes a successful parent? Just shout out what you think makes a successful parent. Okay. All right. 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