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Approximately 300,000 children are adopted annually in the U.S. These children often face mental health challenges throughout their lives, including identity issues, guilt, shame, and difficulty forming relationships. It is important to provide resources and support to help them understand their adoption and cope with these challenges. Therapy can be a valuable tool for adopted children, offering coping strategies and a supportive environment. Many organizations, such as the Center for Adoption Support and Education, provide free support groups and services for adopted children and their families. Adoptive parents also need support and education to better understand their child's needs. Making therapy and resources more accessible and educating families about the different types of adoption can improve mental health and well-being. Open adoption, where birth parents maintain contact with the child, is seen as the most beneficial form. Being open and honest with the child about their ad There are around 300,000 children adopted annually in the U.S. alone. Almost all of these children struggle with mental health challenges throughout their childhood and well into adulthood. There are many resources to help and provide support to adopted children, but they are often disregarded. It is important to allow children the opportunity to understand what adoption is and why they were adopted to lessen the possible side effects. When children are adopted at birth, they are immediately separated from the only person they have had a connection with and placed with complete strangers. This triggers the beginning of many mental health disorders. These typically include, but aren't limited to, identity issues, guilt and shame, a sense of abandonment, difficulty establishing intimacy, behavioral problems, and a higher risk of addiction. Many of these children grow up with these intense feelings and no resources to support them. My brothers and I were adopted, and it's very noticeable how these mental health issues have affected our lives and created challenges. These mental health issues play a major role in a child's life. Many children feel misunderstood or unloved. Some children cannot connect to other people or make friends. Children begin to act out against parents. It is already hard enough to be a child without these crippling and overwhelming feelings. Children need to be able to understand what they are feeling and why. Therapy can be a very important tool for adopted children. It can provide them with coping strategies to overcome these issues and an understanding person to connect with. Putting a child in therapy from a young age can increase their chances and ability to work through some of these more difficult mental health challenges. KidsHealth.org simply describes talk therapy in this way. As many children and teens have problems that affect how they feel, act, or learn, therapy is a type of treatment for these problems. It is a way to get help for your child. In therapy, kids talk about and learn how to work out their problems. Going to therapy helps them cope better, communicate better, and do better. There are many therapists and support groups throughout the country whose main focus is helping adopted children and their families. The Center for Adoption Support and Education, or CASE, serves children, teens, adults, and families throughout the nation who have built their families through foster care, kinship care, guardianship, or adoption. They provide many free support groups and other services to families seeking support. There are also many resources available to help with adoptive parents. When raising a child that is different from you genetically, it can be extremely difficult to parent and understand them. It is important that adoptive parents are mindful of their child's genetics. A student at the Yale School of Medicine states, Children's genetic makeup influences the kind of parenting they need. Many parents struggle to parent in ways that feel foreign to them. Children often feel unsupported by parents they can't relate to. Having a strong parental relationship with your child and being an advocate for their mental health can help form healthier relationship bonds later in life. When parents are educated on adoption, this helps relieve some of the possible issues. Parents are able to learn through educational books, support groups, research articles, or even therapy themselves. Many families are not able to afford these kinds of support for their children. Resources tend to be overpriced and sparse. Not all children need the same type of therapy. Some would function best with talk therapy. Others might like some form of hands-on therapy, like animal therapy or water therapy. It is very important to find the sources that work best for your individual needs. It could be very beneficial to make therapy and other resources more available to common individuals. This could create better mental health and well-being for those around us. Working to educate families about the different types of adoption can be another important solution. Open adoption is the most ideal form. This means that birth parents still have contact with their adopted child and can have communication with them. Semi-open adoption allows contact through a third party. The adopted child and birth parents are not allowed to communicate with each other, but there is still an anonymous connection. Closed adoption is arguably the most difficult form of adoption for a child to understand. There is no connection or communication allowed between parties. Teaching parents and children how each form might affect their life can help children cope better with their feelings. There are many adoption advocates pushing to make more open adoptions, as this allows the child to feel less abandoned. The impact adoption has on children and families needs to be addressed. Being open with a child about their adoption can help them cope with overwhelming feelings. Solutions such as therapy, support groups, and education can drastically improve a child's life and overall well-being. Making these resources available and more well-known can be crucial in the success of a child.

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