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Your family Christmas is a time to reflect on the emotions you experience over the season and consider how they echo the rest of the year.
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Your family Christmas is a time to reflect on the emotions you experience over the season and consider how they echo the rest of the year.
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Your family Christmas is a time to reflect on the emotions you experience over the season and consider how they echo the rest of the year.
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The speaker talks about their experience at the market in Helmsley, where they go every Friday. They mention buying croissants, visiting the butcher, getting fresh vegetables, and having coffee. They also mention talking to fellow shoppers about their hopes and fears for Christmas. They mention that for parents with young children, Christmas is straightforward but exhausting. They talk about mixed emotions for empty nesters, with one person feeling sad that their son will be spending Christmas with their partner's parents. Another person is excited to have their whole family coming to stay but is also daunted by the logistics. They mention another parent dreading the day and hoping it won't turn into an argument. They mention their own plans for Christmas with their son and describe it as quiet and enjoyable. They talk about how Christmas brings out a range of emotions, especially for empty nest families, and mention the contrast between the idealized image of Christmas in the media an Hello, Jeremy Deeter and welcome to the Insight Post for the 13th of December 2023, the last one of this year. Family Christmas, hopes and fears. Friday is market day in Helmsley where I work. As usual, I was there at 8am last Friday to pick up some croissants from Cinnamon Twist. They are delicious and go fast, so I have to get there early. Visit the butcher, buy some fresh vegetables from Think Fresh and have a coffee with anyone who is around at Happy Barista. With two weeks to go for Christmas, it was also an excellent time to listen to the hopes and fears of fellow shoppers. Christmas is about family and most parents with young children thought the day would be pretty straightforward if a little exhausting. Mixed emotions for empty nesters. However, the emotions around Christmas were much more extensive than parents whose children had left home. For one, there was a touch of sadness as she told how her son was spending Christmas with his partner's parents. Another seemed to relish the entire family, 23 at the last count, coming to stay for Christmas whilst admitting to being daunted by the logistics. I heard another parent dreading the day and hoping that the occasion would not degenerate into a blazing row as the family came together, as had happened in previous years. And Adeeb's family, our son who will drive down for Scotland over the weekend, will join us at Christmas. There will be seven of us, including two cats and two ferries, and I expect to be quiet, peaceful and enjoyable. I suspect that we are the lucky ones. A time of reflection. So, Christmas drives many emotions, especially for empty nest families. Sadly, the sugar-coated ideal of Christmas portrayed by the media and the loneliness experienced by those on their own bookend this spectrum of emotions. It seems to me that Christmas for parents whose kids have left home is a microcosm of life in general. For some, it comes with anxiety, sadness and worry, whilst others see the season as a joyful opportunity to catch up with family members living away from home. To this end, Christmas is a time to reflect on the emotions you experience over the season and consider how much they echo the rest of the year, then ask yourself if that needs to change, and if so, how will you make it happen next year?
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