Our life is made up of a continuous series of decisions, like forks in a road. At each fork we decide - what to believe, how to act, how we see others,these choices form who we will become. Regardless, we do get chances to change our choices. It is not easy and made harder when others judge us for what we are rather than what we can become. For those struggling to change, "Feint the blows", be true to yourself as you transition and be proud of what you achieve.